my lady and I don't usually use music. we tried a while ago, but we got out of it. BUT, when we did, Peter Gabriel was a staple. his solo stuff is absolutely amazing! I'm a total fan of him, and Sledgehammer is a dirty, dirty, dirty song!!! the WHOLE thing is about sex! but it's done in such a subtle way that most people who heard it when it originally came out over 20 years ago still don't realize what it was about! TOTAL genius!!! YouTube - Sledgehammer - Peter Gabriel Joseph.