Men are obsessed with how they fit into the "pecking" order of your past lovers. For me, my current lover is always my best lover since I am in love. I don't crave others when in a relationship. But they do always ask questions - ever date another woman?, ever have a one night stand?, ever sleep with endowed guy? It is last one want to inquire about.... If have experience with guy that has really large penis and next boyfriends ask about size past is it best to keep it a secret?