Most of this is a take-off from my introductory post, so I thought it was an apropos topic for breaking my thread cherry. It might be helpful to know I'm a 26-year-old gay male.
Although there are many things I look for in the perfect guy, over time ... and after many bad dates and failed relationships ... a thoughtful analysis has led me to conclude that hung guys in the long run make better bfs. This is not to suggest that every hung guy is a prince ... but rather, that every prince is a hung guy. I get a lot of flak for that, even in the gay community, but I've never been afraid to adopt unpopular rhetoric if it's something I truly believe in. And I do.
My experience has been that hung guys are not only more take-charge (which, granted, is something I look for), but even more romantic and affectionate. This is mostly analysis in hindsight...looking back...but it continues to be born out in my dating today, even before I know the size of the guy. That is, all the least satisfying guys i dated ... if i slept with them ...turned out to be smaller. And all the guys who swept me off my feet ... always turned out later to be hung.
Even if there is some correlation, I'm not suggesting I know a cause. Either way, I'd welcome thoughts. :smile:
Although there are many things I look for in the perfect guy, over time ... and after many bad dates and failed relationships ... a thoughtful analysis has led me to conclude that hung guys in the long run make better bfs. This is not to suggest that every hung guy is a prince ... but rather, that every prince is a hung guy. I get a lot of flak for that, even in the gay community, but I've never been afraid to adopt unpopular rhetoric if it's something I truly believe in. And I do.
My experience has been that hung guys are not only more take-charge (which, granted, is something I look for), but even more romantic and affectionate. This is mostly analysis in hindsight...looking back...but it continues to be born out in my dating today, even before I know the size of the guy. That is, all the least satisfying guys i dated ... if i slept with them ...turned out to be smaller. And all the guys who swept me off my feet ... always turned out later to be hung.
Even if there is some correlation, I'm not suggesting I know a cause. Either way, I'd welcome thoughts. :smile: