Bf has gun fetish.

[japetty]

Why don't you try to level the playing field? Get a Bow&Arrow and point it at him and see if he likes it . The last time someone pointed a gun at me was during a robbery . GUNS do not belong in the bedroom period .

Maybe it is just me but this sounds like adding fuel to the fire which is already out of control here. We don't need anymore ammo thrown in to the bad situation IMHO? We don't need to level the playing field, the playing field need to be done away with if it can't be made safe. Weapons and adding ammo is not safe for anyone concerned in the manner described above.

 

[KennF]

Why don't you try to level the playing field? Get a Bow&Arrow and point it at him and see if he likes it . The last time someone pointed a gun at me was during a robbery . GUNS do not belong in the bedroom period .

You're missing part of the issue. It isn't just about the weapon. The OP is sharing their concern, which means that on some level, they already sense a problem. Guns are about control and fear. Since the fetish has already gotten to the point where the gun is in he equation, things have already gone too far. There is already a sense of control and/or loss of control.

Introducing a new weapon into the situation isn't going to make things healthier.

At this point, the OP should seek professional guidance and help from local resources. Before the control issues escalate further.

 

[Beedie Tijii]

I can't think of anything that mixes less well with sex than loaded weapons.