BF Wants Less Sex Willing to Let Me Play

[KennF]

Hi keenobserver.

You equate sex to physical intimacy. And for you that works. But it isn't the only way.

For some, sex is just physcial pleasure and not about closeness or intimacy. It is like taking a bubble bath, drinking a fine wine, or skydiving. It provides a physical sensation, an adrenaline (or testoserone) rush, and that's all.

If the OP separates the intimacy from the sex, then it's likes one partner like vanilla and the other liking chocolate ice cream. One can have vanilla once a week and the other can have chocolate daily.

-Kenn

 

[Betty_Cocker]

Checked previous posts. Op is male.

Doesn't change the majority of advice...or the discussion. I don't see a difference.

 

[lillywhite]

I had to meet 48 scary guys on cl to find 1 I would have sex with. I was looking for a partner for a few yrs. Someone who would put out on a regular sch. Cl is scarry but you might find 1. Pack a loaded gun. If you personal message me ill give you the story of the guy with a metal cage built in his vehical. Of course my needs were a damn long list and you might not be as pickey.