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Pretty straightforward, and I'm sure it's not the most original topic (there's one on the first page about the opposite situation where the girl won't give her boyfriend oral, but this it he opposite).
Here's the deal: Best friend of mine is a sexy lady. She's been dating a guy for years now and he's never gone down on her. He will not do it. She loves it and wants it. But she says that him not doing it is "not a deal-breaker(, ladies)."
Myself, I told her he needs to man up and go down. I have told her that if it is truly important, she needs to assert herself by explaining in a direct but kind way that it's very important to her. She thinks he is the type where ultimatums won't work and, she says, she honestly won't stop blowing and banging him even if he won't go down on her. This both confirms her "not a deal-breaker" stance and asserts in my mind that she's basically never going to get her pussy licked ever again.
Now, what's strange to me is that tonight in conversation between me, another of her good male friends, one of her good female friends, and her, myself and the other guy were basically on the side of "he needs to man up and go down" while, after a fair bit of shit talking, her and her female friend were kind of wishy-washy about it.
I don't get it. She brings up how unsatisfied with not getting any oral sex she is constantly but she seems unwilling to really press the issue.
What do you guys think of this situation? Anyone been in a similar situation?
I know it's a bit vague--I have a feeling a lot of the strong women here would tell this guy to take a hike. But she does have strong feeling for him. Personally, I think she needs to seriously and directly communicate to him that it's important to her and that she needs it to be sexually satisfied.
Any input appreciated. :smile:
Here's the deal: Best friend of mine is a sexy lady. She's been dating a guy for years now and he's never gone down on her. He will not do it. She loves it and wants it. But she says that him not doing it is "not a deal-breaker(, ladies)."
Myself, I told her he needs to man up and go down. I have told her that if it is truly important, she needs to assert herself by explaining in a direct but kind way that it's very important to her. She thinks he is the type where ultimatums won't work and, she says, she honestly won't stop blowing and banging him even if he won't go down on her. This both confirms her "not a deal-breaker" stance and asserts in my mind that she's basically never going to get her pussy licked ever again.
Now, what's strange to me is that tonight in conversation between me, another of her good male friends, one of her good female friends, and her, myself and the other guy were basically on the side of "he needs to man up and go down" while, after a fair bit of shit talking, her and her female friend were kind of wishy-washy about it.
I don't get it. She brings up how unsatisfied with not getting any oral sex she is constantly but she seems unwilling to really press the issue.
What do you guys think of this situation? Anyone been in a similar situation?
I know it's a bit vague--I have a feeling a lot of the strong women here would tell this guy to take a hike. But she does have strong feeling for him. Personally, I think she needs to seriously and directly communicate to him that it's important to her and that she needs it to be sexually satisfied.
Any input appreciated. :smile: