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I've seen posts for jock types looking for same type guys to be jerk off buddies with and bro out otherwise. How does this work? I'm guessing they both know they are gonna give one another at least a hand. Does this more fall in to I like dudes and dick but not so much the kissing and intimate part? I totally get it as I like the male form and have had sex with men but don't want anything to do with kissing and the like. That being said, I am open to the idea if anyone wants to discuss it further with me.
 
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Near enough to what you put in you post, mutual masturbation, jack off buddies, wank buddy several names for it, they either get off watching and being by another guy wank and cum or have a willing hand. Some will venture to oral one ay or both.

Some wank buddies are into the kissing bit butt not into anal sex.

Just find out from the other guy or guys what they want and what you want
 
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I am bicurious but have not made any moves to do something. I would probably be interested at first in mutual masturbation only. May consider oral after a while with the guy.
It has been to long since I have had sex with a woman and masturbation is starting to get boring.
 

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I think it is pretty much what the two of you make of it. Sort of set some ground rules beforehand and if things progress further and both agree then whatever happens should be fine between the two of you. It could easily progress to oral but might not either. You should view it as a time of mutual exploration.
 

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I am bicurious but have not made any moves to do something. I would probably be interested at first in mutual masturbation only. May consider oral after a while with the guy.
It has been to long since I have had sex with a woman and masturbation is starting to get boring.

Its always best to get a helping hand as far as masturbation is concerned, definitely a workload best shared :D
 

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Sounds like you've gotten the idea behind it. In my experience it's been about guys who want to experience "masculine" sexuality without the perceived "femininity" of taking or sucking dick. Sadly gay sex can still be considered taboo and difficult for people, who are interested in it, to get their head around. This can be a good stepping stone to more, but sometimes this is just it. And that's okay too. I think mutual masturbation shouldn't be considered gay, bi, or str8.
 

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man its primal instinct male...best male bonding...nothing.wrong with helping a bud...we don't have cocks...we are our COCKs defines us...never enough...bi gay straight all guys slave to the cock..thinking too much..just follow your dick
 

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I've seen posts for jock types looking for same type guys to be jerk off buddies with and bro out otherwise. How does this work? I'm guessing they both know they are gonna give one another at least a hand. Does this more fall in to I like dudes and dick but not so much the kissing and intimate part? I totally get it as I like the male form and have had sex with men but don't want anything to do with kissing and the like. That being said, I am open to the idea if anyone wants to discuss it further with me.

What you described. I like giving head so I've got friends that'll ask me in the middle of a movie to go down on them and I'll either do it while the movie is on or stop it and then go back to it after he cums. Sometimes they want to watch me stroke, sometimes not. Like some of the others have said, it depends on the guys you're with and what they're willing/wanting to do. I'm not a jock though lol and I don't think I've ever called anyone "bro". "Dude" yes, "bro" no lol. We're all horny and guys understand what it's like. Sometimes you just want to cum without really "dealing" with someone else.
 

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man its primal instinct male...best male bonding...nothing.wrong with helping a bud...we don't have cocks...we are our COCKs defines us...never enough...bi gay straight all guys slave to the cock..thinking too much..just follow your dick
LOL!!!!!
I AGREE!!
 

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I have posted pics on Craigslist but never actually met with anyone, by my choice. Having said that, mutual masterbation sounds interesting because I know what gets me, but am curious how others do it same or different than I do. Just nosy I guess. Will I ever meet with anyone to find out? Who knows...
 
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My guess is this is how most bi guys start to experience their sexuality. Wrestling around, stripping down and comparing, then wanking each other off is exactly how it started for me and my original jo bud.

For me it was more hanging out with my best buddy when we were young, sleeping in the same room, eventually talking and cuddling together. We never wrestled. We generally watched a lot of porn which led to more physical contact. It was more intimate from the beginning emotionally if not sexually.
 
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What you described. I like giving head so I've got friends that'll ask me in the middle of a movie to go down on them and I'll either do it while the movie is on or stop it and then go back to it after he cums. Sometimes they want to watch me stroke, sometimes not. Like some of the others have said, it depends on the guys you're with and what they're willing/wanting to do. I'm not a jock though lol and I don't think I've ever called anyone "bro". "Dude" yes, "bro" no lol. We're all horny and guys understand what it's like. Sometimes you just want to cum without really "dealing" with someone else.

Not sure why I pictured a situation where you would say "no no this a good part pause it so I don't miss important plot points"
 

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I've seen posts for jock types looking for same type guys to be jerk off buddies with and bro out otherwise. How does this work? I'm guessing they both know they are gonna give one another at least a hand. Does this more fall in to I like dudes and dick but not so much the kissing and intimate part? I totally get it as I like the male form and have had sex with men but don't want anything to do with kissing and the like. That being said, I am open to the idea if anyone wants to discuss it further with me.

One fantasy that I have is actually kissing a man with two day old stuble and some nice chest hair beautiful eyes. It just a kiss.
 

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man its primal instinct male...best male bonding...nothing.wrong with helping a bud...we don't have cocks...we are our COCKs defines us...never enough...bi gay straight all guys slave to the cock..thinking too much..just follow your dick[/

Having a cock between your legs is a powerful thing. A cock is a powerful thing. The pleasure is brings us and the pleasure it brings to others. The release it gives us. There is nothing else like it on earth. Think about cumming where or what can you do to get that kind of release and the afterglow that remains for a good while after you have shot your load wherever! A cock is a powerful symbol and a powerful thing. I love mine and I know most honest men will say the same thing!
 

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I have posted pics on Craigslist but never actually met with anyone, by my choice. Having said that, mutual masterbation sounds interesting because I know what gets me, but am curious how others do it same or different than I do. Just nosy I guess. Will I ever meet with anyone to find out? Who knows...


I know how you feel. Being an only boy in the family I feel I missed out on a lot of things. I would love to get naked and have a time of bonding and fun with a group of other naked guys. And just experience what it feels like to let your cocks hang free and feel the environment and see where it takes you. I can very well see how two guys could have a time of bonding spending time together naked. To bad we not closer.