Bi Curious

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  1. lookatme

    lookatme New Member

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    I have had sex with women, and love the hell out of it. But there is alway this thought in my head "What is it like with a man?" I don't even know how to go about approching the idea of asking another man to have sex. At this point it would have to be dicreet and someone that I didn't have to see on a daily basis. If anyone has any advice, it would be appreciated.
     
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    What sort of things interests you sexually about a guy?
     
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    What sort of things interests you sexually about a guy?
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    Just something new you know?....women are soft cute smell good. Men are hard more dominate, not 100% sure how to answer that, I would probably say that it is more curiousity than a fantasy.
     
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    Be mindful that not all men are aggressive and dominant in bed. Some are submissive in their own right, and usually don't look the part, either.
     
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    first, ask yourself why you are inhibited about having sex with men? if there's an answer to that, then the next question is if you can get over it?

    suggestions are the obvious
    1 go out and find a few guys to be with. its not hard just as its not hard to find women. you simply have to know where to look and go into pick up mode just like with women.
    2 if you find it easier to get women then look for opportunities for 3-somes with a woman and man.

    Also, as mentioned, think about your role.
     
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    I'd probably recommend getting some gay porn and seeing how it makes yer feel (if you haven't already). If you don't come over all queasy then maybe there's some mileage in this question.

    Do you find yourself wanking over guys in your head? Or fancy anyone you know for example?

    Ian.
     
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    my advice would be to have sex with a man and find out.

    yes you do. it's almost exactly the same as asking a woman ... only, uh, with a man. it's probably easier to start by going someplace where gay men hang out ... since they're usually the ones most likely to be interested in having sex with other men.
     
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    Agreed. That's what I did when I finally decided to stop ignoring my gay side. It actually helped a lot in terms of preparing me for my first encounter with another guy - I had a better idea of what to expect. I still find straight porn (with good-looking guys) hotter than gay porn, however; but that's just me...

    True story: the first gay porn video I ever rented later had to be pulled off the shelves when it was discovered that one of the actors was underage. Apparently, he had obtained a genuine California driver's license using a fake birth certificate, and presented said license to the production company, which of course accepted it as genuine.
     
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