You're gonna get a lot of people trying to tell you what this means, because they think that the way they are is right and the existence of anything else is wrong. You will also get people trying to change you or guilt you into doing things that aren't natural to you, because it benefits them. These people are not worth your time, and will only clash with you so avoid.
I am "bisexual" and love it! I'm not one of these non-straight guys who say "if I could change my sexuality then I would because it would be easier". No, if I had a choice, I'd be exactly as I am, sexually. And I don't like anal either. Im fact with guys, I don't even like recieving pleasure, I prefer to give.
A number of "people" have complained about this, but of course they will; they want to conquer any big dick that comes their way. If I were hung like a gerbil then maybe they wouldn't tell me that I have detailed psychological/intimacy/personal issues, to try and get their own way.
I've generally been told that the reason I don't like to recieve pleasure from men is because I'm not comfortable with the fact that I like men. Really? Wouldn't that make more sense if I was into getting blowjobs rather than giving them? Lol. I'm sure these people know me better than I've known myself for over 28 years, just because I won't let them suck me off.
My advice; just be straight up with people right away, once you realise there's a sexual attraction. Tell them what you will and won't do. And if anyone insists you do otherwise, kick them to the curb.
