Bi Guys - Are you comfortable going to a Gay Bath House?

Are you comfortable going to a Gay Bath House for sex?


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I would love to go more often, but there is the fear of being caught I guess, maybe when I am older that may change.

I went once out of curiosity when I was 18 as I heard a lot about them, it was a mind blowing experience.

It was a cold wet winter's day and I thought this may be the best time to go in. I found it very liberating to walk around nake and the first thing I did was to sit in an empty a very hot spa, a few minutes later two older mature gentlemen sat on either side of me.

What followed next was so much, groping, fondling and touching it was a genuine thrill to be adored in that manner.

I never been back, but I may do so interstate.
 

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I am married and lucky to live quite close to a gay owned spa (the name bath house has never really caught on in the UK) and I go there as often as I can. It has a traditional spa area on the ground floor, with the usual sauna and steam rooms, hot tub and open showers. Upstairs is where the fun starts, with glory holes, porn screens, a sling and variously sized rooms ideal for fucking. I'm always guaranteed some action and I can just be myself when I'm there, no hang ups or worries. Whether it's just a chill session to stroke and watch porn or to get my ass well and truly pounded, it's all good and I always return to the nasty outside world feeling relaxed and invigorated.
 

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I would love to go more often, but there is the fear of being caught I guess, maybe when I am older that may change.

I went once out of curiosity when I was 18 as I heard a lot about them, it was a mind blowing experience.

It was a cold wet winter's day and I thought this may be the best time to go in. I found it very liberating to walk around nake and the first thing I did was to sit in an empty a very hot spa, a few minutes later two older mature gentlemen sat on either side of me.

What followed next was so much, groping, fondling and touching it was a genuine thrill to be adored in that manner.

I never been back, but I may do so interstate.
I thought the same until I realized that if I run into someone, he’s also there. Lol.
 

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i would love to and dream of it! just wish i had someone to go with.
If it's your dream then go on your own, looking at your profile and that sexy, smooth package, you probably won't be on your own for long!
I remember my first time going to one, where I had arranged to meet someone from fabguys. He didn't show up, so I went in alone and very apprehensive. My nervousness soon subsided though and I was soon enjoying every aspect of it.
You just need to take that leap of faith and go for it.
 

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If it's your dream then go on your own, looking at your profile and that sexy, smooth package, you probably won't be on your own for long!
I remember my first time going to one, where I had arranged to meet someone from fabguys. He didn't show up, so I went in alone and very apprehensive. My nervousness soon subsided though and I was soon enjoying every aspect of it.
You just need to take that leap of faith and go for it.
yep you are right, thanks! :cool:
 

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I live in LA and I've been to a few bath houses out here. Before Covid I used to go often and the only attractive guys I'd ever see were Escorts and former porn stars who were all hired and paid to be there by random guys. Basically the escort would do what ever the random guy wanted in the privacy of the random guys room or shower area and then the escort would leave afterwards.

But looking back now it was such a waste of time and money. Cause I only like to hook up with other attractive guys and not have to pay for it. But there is a restricted bath house out here where they only let guys in who are 21 - 50 years old and not out of shape. They don't have to have a six pack but can't be walking around with a huge gut.
 

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There are none that I know of where I live but I would have no problem checking it out,
Well if and when you do go take some sanitary cleaning wipes with you. The staff is supposed to clean out the private rooms each time someone leaves, but sometimes they get lazy and don't do a good job.

So for health reasons it's good to give the room a good wipe down yourself. And I'm not necessarily talking about because of covid, but other bodily fluids from whatever random people who were in there previously, that you don't know anything about. Cause the rooms are always dark and you can't see everything until you put your hand into it.
 
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I grew up in nyc so the first time I visited one I was 18 years old. I wore nothing but a thong. I spent hours and hours there the first time, and played with a lot of guys. I feel like the older men were over the moon to have a lithe, plyable young guy to play with. And I certainly liked being the center of attention. It wasn’t really my scene tho so I didn’t go back to one again for a long time. Now I’m middle aged and don’t have those looks anymore, but I hold onto the memory.
 

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I would like to try one but feel awkward going alone, not sure of any good ones in the Philly area
Same. I know me though and sometimes enjoy putting myself in situations where I don't know what's going to happen but generally yeah, I think I'd be secretly nervous and awkward. Not sure how long I'd last in one before leaving to go to a pub instead.
 
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Also, what if no-one wanted to have sex with me. It would make me feel low I think.

I thought the same too, when I was 18 I was slim and petite and didnt think a guy would find me attractive lol.

There is a guy for every guy out there. Even if no one did, there is always a next time.