Bi Guys - Are you comfortable going to a Gay Bath House?

Are you comfortable going to a Gay Bath House for sex?


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I visited a lot of Korean spas and that was sort of perfect since you could have some fun and it didn’t go too far. But I visited a bathhouse with JO buddy because we both wanted to try frotting and it’s kind tough to do that at kspa. We walked through the whole place to fully take it in. It felt a little seedier than I liked but it honestly wasn’t much worse than I’ve seen at kspas. Just a lot more of it.
 
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I went to one a couple of times in my 20s. I live in San Francisco. To me, it felt seedy. It wasn’t my scene. It felt very dated too–like, red lights and could use some repairs. I heard that one in nearby Berkeley is a lot nicer, and I even won a free VIP package, but I never checked it out. Apparently the one I went to is moving locations, and they changed a law in SF that’s more favorable to bathhouses, so maybe I’ll give it another shot when that happens.
I used to go to the one in Berkeley often. It’s a nice facility with a nice gym. I enjoy working out in my underwear, lol! Groups of men would just watch me for hours. Then I would chill in the jacuzzi until I was ready to go. For the most part no one ever caught my eye since the typical crowd are older out of shape guy. Every now and then a college stud would show up.
 

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I go to bath houses when out of town because I am always horny on vacation. The first i went I was afraid that I would no have fun, but I was wrong. I loved the showers, hot tub and steam room. It was really fun in the hottub playing footsies. I enjoyed the groping that went on. I got sucked off in the bathroom, sauna and steam room. In the sauna there was guys riding other guys. I stayed about four hours and nutted several times that night. My favorite bath house was in Sydney Australia.
 

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We have no gay bathhouses where I live, but I plan to explore as travel opens up again. I used to worry about going and finding no action because I'm an older guy with a bit of a gut...but then I think why not? I'll stand out because I'll be the fresh meat amongst all the locals lol.
 
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We have no gay bathhouses where I live, but I plan to explore as travel opens up again. I used to worry about going and finding no action because I'm an older guy with a bit of a gut...but then I think why not? I'll stand out because I'll be the fresh meat amongst all the locals lol.
I wouldn’t worry about it
 
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We have no gay bathhouses where I live, but I plan to explore as travel opens up again. I used to worry about going and finding no action because I'm an older guy with a bit of a gut...but then I think why not? I'll stand out because I'll be the fresh meat amongst all the locals lol.
Are you kidding?

If you walked into a bathouse I was in, wearing those red briefs in your profile picture, I wouldn't know if you had a belly button or not.
 
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I've been to a few in my lifetime - Sydney, Melbourne, London. I love them. You get to be your uninhibited self and do whatever you are comfortable to do. It may just be a wank to porn in the open cinema room, or a naked jaunt in the sauna, or joining in an orgy in the wet area, or just chillaxing in the spa as people grope you (and you return the favour). There was one in Melbourne with its own swimming pool which was awesome as you could swim naked, get a workout, and then have fun after.
 

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You get to be your uninhibited self and do whatever you are comfortable to do. It may just be a wank to porn in the open cinema room, or a naked jaunt in the sauna, or joining in an orgy in the wet area, or just chillaxing in the spa as people grope you....
This perfectly describes how I feel about them, that "uninhibited self". A few hours timeout from all the craziness. I went to my local one again last Thurs. I met a lovely guy who was really on my wavelength. We had a lot of fun and plan to meet there again soon.
 

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Bath houses can be a lot of fun. I visit them, when I am travelling for work. I love theme nights in gay bars too. I book hotels in the gay parts of town. On a good night, a gay bar or bath is more fun than Mardi Gras.

Most bisexual men will go to a bath house, IF... he is out of town, alone, on business... AND said bathhouse is not situated beside his hotel. He usually wants to be blown, fuck or eat ass, then run back to the "safety of the hotel".

Bi men: Open your minds... and your asscracks, and, have fun! You only live once!
 

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We have no gay bathhouses where I live, but I plan to explore as travel opens up again. I used to worry about going and finding no action because I'm an older guy with a bit of a gut...but then I think why not? I'll stand out because I'll be the fresh meat amongst all the locals lol.

For starters welcome to our board.

Please dont ever feel this way, everyone has preferences and those can vary from guy to guy.

You will be pleasantly surprised. Youre definitely a preference that definitely some guys will want and enjoy.

Ive only been with a few guys, they have all been much much older and definitely much heavier than me. Its what I like, enjoy and find attractive. Its a preference which I seek and its no one's else's concern but mine.

Let us know how it all goes for you?
 

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I enjoy them. But I still get very nervous about going. I have some fear I will end up seejnf someone I know . Because I still not open to close family and friends and I still enjoy dating woman .
When I work up the nerve I go and have a lot of fun
 

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I enjoy them. But I still get very nervous about going. I have some fear I will end up seejnf someone I know . Because I still not open to close family and friends and I still enjoy dating woman .
When I work up the nerve I go and have a lot of fun
Very few people know my bi side. Told maneire a few years back. However no one knows about going to bathhouses. On the other hand, I use to feel the same fear until I realized if I run into someone, that person is also going to be in a bath house and probably also down low so the worst is you’ll end up with a buddy to go with! Hasn’t happened to me yet but it’s not something I worry about anymore due to my logic.