Bi Guys - Are you comfortable going to a Gay Bath House?

Are you comfortable going to a Gay Bath House for sex?


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I have been going to a local one for years and never bumped into anyone from work or friends network. If it does ever happen then my logic is that they are there for the same thing as me and so why should I feel threatened or embarrassed? And if it was one of my bosses I might even let them fuck me ;)
 

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I have been going to a local one for years and never bumped into anyone from work or friends network. If it does ever happen then my logic is that they are there for the same thing as me and so why should I feel threatened or embarrassed? And if it was one of my bosses I might even let them fuck me ;)
Thanks for that, it kind of inspired me to want to go again another time.
 
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I’ve never been to one. It’s on my bucket list of things to do. From what I’ve heard, I shouldn’t expect a whole lot. But I’m curious to see for myself.

I would say it probably varies from place to place.

Club Orlando is the only one I've been to. I was a member for two years, and in that time, I saw people of all ages and types have all sorts of fun. Some visits were better than others for me, but overall, it's incredibly easy to find action if you're open to it.
 

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I can obviously only speak from my own experiences, but perhaps I could calm the nerves of anyone anxious about their first visit.

Firstly, speak to the staff when you arrive, they will probably give you a discrete tour and explain any etiquette for different areas. My local one, for instance, has a conventional spa area where they discourage too much sexual activity, and an upper floor where the fun happens.

Secondly, there is no pressure on you to be a rampant porn star. Use the spa, hot tub, sauna etc. and relax into the place. Take a look around the other areas and watch the action if you want. Any guys there stroking or fucking in a open room will appreciate the audience. If you don't feel confident doing any more then that's fine. This was pretty much how I was the first time I went.

Finally, try to calm your nerves by thinking that all the other guys there are like minded, no one is judging you, it is just a safe environment to be yourself. Trust me, by your second and third visit you will not want to leave.
 

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Would love to know what made it fantastic?
It was great guys standing in line to suck my cock. Way beyond any expectation that I had. I was also able to suck some very nice cock also. I can’t wait for the next time
 
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I went once on an overnight layover in Spain when I was 27. The place was pretty dead. I got naked and went to the open shower room. A guy came in there and stood at the opposite end of the showers. He was a good looking older guy, gray hair, runner’s build. Late 40s to 50 I would say. We just kinda eyeballed each other and then he beckoned me to follow him. Next thing I know we were in some kind of small dark room with a vinyl bench. I sat down on it and he got next to me and started sucking me off. Didn’t take long. I started to cum within 2-3 minutes and he jerked me off onto his face. Then we got up, went back to the shower room, cleaned off. Then he said goodbye and walked out, disappeared. I got dressed and left. I was probably only in the place 30 minutes, but I figured, fuck it, I got what I wanted out of the experience.
 

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Always wanted to try it but been too chicken to go myself. A guy on here did offer to take me a while ago but I was nervous about going, being a bit of a fatty. But surprised at recent conversations and occasional meets with hot wee guys who find it a turn on so will need to have a go!
 

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Cumming inside the sauna is always an intense climax.
I don’t know how many illicit Behaviors are happening everywhere in gym steam rooms, or how often, but most of the stream rooms I have been in all have safety signs posted on the outside of the door. Reading down the lists, there’s always the warning about no indecent behaviors will be tolerated…

Here are some good “ice-breakers”, and signals, and “tell-tale hints;

body language, untying the towel around the waist, Suggestive posture, legs open, one leg up on bench, lying on bench without towel, changing positions often, etc..
If sitting naked, are they/you clearing the throat a lot, sighing, rubbing the nose, self-massaging, stretching..
It's always a plus, if you have good strong PC muscles, and know how to do kegal exercises..
Nothing else gives a better signal than a twitching cock.

Frequently exiting and re-entering the sauna/steam room, ( I used to hate this since it let the heat out, and the thermostat would kick on, heating it up even more) , loitering around shower area with eye contact. In the showers, spending time with my back turned, soaping up the groin area, then revealing a puffy semi, bending forwards, flexing the glutes towards the shower, spreading and washing the glutes..
One gym I frequently went to, had a big round shower head hanging from the ceiling with a pull chain. Pulling it would release high pressure,icy cold water , like a 10gal. bucket dropping on you. I think my record was like 4 times in a row, I’d pull the chain, before heading back into either the sauna or steam room..Sometimes, I’d go from jacuzzi, to steam room to sauna, depending on how hard I worked out and who was joining me.
starting up a conversation, how chatty someone gets, With me, it was either in the sauna or steam room, , joking about all the rules, wondering where the surveillance cameras were, or in the steam room asking if others minded more steam or spraying that eucalyptus oil spray in the steam, since some people can’t handle it.


Now if you’re lucky, and depending how brazen and daring and horny you are, a nice climax is the best way to end a workout , a happy ending, as it were.
Most memorable;
some guy drinking a lot of cold water before sucking my cock.with his cold lips and tongue .in the sauna..
walking in on a group of guys who all cover up, until they recognized me , it was better than being at a bathhouse
that satiated , blissful euphoria after cumming, I'm in the shower and look down at my puffy pink freshly sucked cock..
 

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I went to pleasuredrome London a few times. Was very nervous the first time coz i had no idea what to expect but a few drinks gave me the courage to try. Asked the guy at the desk what wud show on my bank statement if i used my card and freaked a bit when he said it would say pleasuredrome so always paid cash instead. First time in there i didnt do much but watched a lot of stuff goin on. Went back the next time i was in London few weeks after n decided i was gona try stuff. Walked round a while but nobody i seen turned me on, had a few guys touch me as i went past them. Eventually found a guy i liked in one of the smaller rooms, chatted a little n told him i was new. He asked what i wanted 2 try and took it slowly with me. I was sucking him n some old guy walked in which scared me a little. My guy took me upstairs in a private room n we carried on kissing n sucking.

next time i went back all my inhibitions were gone. I did everythin (sucked, topped, bottomed) and guys saw me. Once i was past the first shock of being caught wi a dick in my mouth and realised it was ok to be seen i was over it
 

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Always wanted to try it but been too chicken to go myself. A guy on here did offer to take me a while ago but I was nervous about going, being a bit of a fatty. But surprised at recent conversations and occasional meets with hot wee guys who find it a turn on so will need to have a go!
Everyone has different tastes and desires in what they are attracted to and or enjoy having sex with.

Ive been slim/petite to slightly muscular my entire life and all my male partner have been much older and also in your case much much heavier. It never has been an issue for me sexually in terms of me enjoying myself. If anything I find the weight to be a turn on.

You may be pleasantly surprised at the number of guys that do like your apperance.