Hi guys, ok so here is my situation and would love to hear your feedback. I'm was dating a girl while I was working overseas. We dated for 2 months, but we were both leaving the country at the same time. and it was the best relationship I was ever in. However I never told her I was bi-sexual. I'm usually very upfront about these things with my friends, but when I'm dating I usually let them get to know my first before I bring it up. Also I found out later she was a virgin when we were dating and I was the first guy she was ever with. (She is a christian but not a fundamentalist) I decided not to tell her because I really did not want to give her a complex about me being her first, and figured since it was ending in 2 months that there was no point. The thing is I still keep in contact with her, and there is a chance we might be moving back to the same country for work. If we do I know I have to tell her if I want to keep dating her, but I'm worried she'll freak out and get even more upset I didn't tell her earlier on. Also the fact that she is a christian does not help me out either. Like I said she is not an extremist, but more old fashioned. She does have gay friends, but I know that is different than dating someone who is in to men. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Bi guys any advice on how to approach this with the girl your dating?