Returning to the subject of my two married buddies. Yes, based on my religious upbring, I realize that when we have a boys night out, that what they're doing is deceitful, cheating and morally wrong. I'm not trying to justify it, but it seems that the # of bi's involved in affairs probably pales to the # of str8 married people committing adultry. How can I look at their wives, knowing what I do? Or even respect these guys. As I've stated before, I have enough baggage in my life which prevents my judging others. My friendship/sex with these guys goes back a number of years prior to them getting married, at which point their wives came into my other bud's and my lives. Again, perhaps, I'm making bad choices, but next to family, my closest friends come first. Maybe if the two of them were wife-beaters, poor-providers, alcoholics or burdened with other character flaws it would be easier to abandon their friendship.