Bi guys that are not emotionally attracted to men; why is that?
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I ,at one point in time, was only physically attracted to men, nothing emotional. I still feel pretty much like this now. I have, however, found that in some past physical only relationships with a guy (on a FWB basis), that I would feel jealousy, when he was out with, and messing around, with other guys. That's when I realized that emotion can and does play into a relationship, even when you are not trying to let them happen.
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Can't speak for royksopp4 but his comment did resonate with me. No energy cannot be simulated or emulated it emanated from the essence of the person (not to sound all esoteric and shit but it's the only way I know how to explain it) effeminate men feel nothing like a women, they still have a masculine presence. Female energy is completely different than a mans. I'm not talking about being passive or active it goes deeper than that. For me feminine energy is like connecting with something you didn't really know you needed but when you experience it, it awakens a completely different part of you and you can't imagine not being without it. ( I'm talking about when you click with a women not just any ol girl lol)
I guess the best way I can put it is feminine energy is complementary opposites while masculine energy(even effeminate men ) is like similar energy.
I've always thought that effeminate men have a female energy only a considerably different kind that womens'.
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I see where you are going with this. I can agree with that. It's the difference that I am talking about
I was like that at first, but since getting into male on male sex I can see myself in a relationship with an effeminate male. Masculine chaps wouldn't do it for me because I'm not into that. I'm more into women so it it fits why I like soft looking men. Getting hard right now thinking of that.
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I am not physically or emotionally attracted to men, for me it is purely sexual and even then I'm not at all interested until I see their cock....or mine is down their throat, then I barely care what they look like. If they are very large/fat I'm probably not going to be interested in sucking them off but otherwise I will do just about anything
When I was younger, and a man kissed me passionately in public.....I was in aww of his sexiness. I don't know if that was love, but I just adored him.....and his affection for me.
I can relate to that as well. I detest a man's body, but like cock. Hairy men are the worst.
Smooth, skinny Asian cross-dresser's are my favorite. Saw a few of them that I would actually kiss!
Just my preference.
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I think it is a phase that can then become a mental block in some cases.
I for SURE went through a "guys are just for fun" phase until this one guy made moves and I slowly started to fall for him.
However, once that first guy broke the mold, I was pretty much wide open to anything with men or women. Whike my love life has not been nearly as successful as my sex life, it has still become very freeing to be able to truly view anyone as a potential partner regardless of gender.
Plus flipfucking with a guy you actually care for is one of the most intense sexual experiences you can have in my opinion.
I for SURE went through a "guys are just for fun" phase until this one guy made moves and I slowly started to fall for him.
However, once that first guy broke the mold, I was pretty much wide open to anything with men or women. Whike my love life has not been nearly as successful as my sex life, it has still become very freeing to be able to truly view anyone as a potential partner regardless of gender.
Plus flipfucking with a guy you actually care for is one of the most intense sexual experiences you can have in my opinion.
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I have no desire to have an emotional relationship with a man... I have a girlfriend I deeply love. I just have desre for cock and cum that gets the best of me! It is just something she can't give me!
I’ve been on both ends of the ‘emotionally attached’. Generally, for me, it’s about getting off and I think that’s probably the norm.
When I was emotionally attached it was for the wrong reasons. I fell into a relationship with a friend/coworker and got emotionally attached, he had just got divorced and I had just lost my dad. Unfortunately we were looking for two different types of relationships. I to connect with an older (6 years) male figure, him for a partner. Didn’t work out.
When I was emotionally attached it was for the wrong reasons. I fell into a relationship with a friend/coworker and got emotionally attached, he had just got divorced and I had just lost my dad. Unfortunately we were looking for two different types of relationships. I to connect with an older (6 years) male figure, him for a partner. Didn’t work out.
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I'm physically attracted to both men and women, but I have a wife (female) who I love very much. We're in the lifestyle and we're both physically bi. Our lifestyle play is just sex whether it's with women or men... or women and men, or any other combination.
I'm happy in my emotional relationship with my wife, and I have no need for any other emotional connection. I don't know if I could ever be emotionally attracted to a guy because I've never been in a situation where I was interested or open to it.
I'm happy in my emotional relationship with my wife, and I have no need for any other emotional connection. I don't know if I could ever be emotionally attracted to a guy because I've never been in a situation where I was interested or open to it.
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For me, I don't find men attractive at all. I don't like mens bodies have zero interest in them sexually other than a a big dick. Could suck a big dick but can't even think about kissing a man or their body just no sexual attraction there. Maybe it's because dicks have been over sexualised in porn? Who knows
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