Yes, I am a bisexual man. And yes, I like men AND women. But I'm curious about what other bi guys are into, besides gender, sexually. What kind of kink or fetishes do you have and how does your desire for men and women shape them? Is it different for each?
I notice in a lot of the bisexual porn I see, there is frequent pegging (aka girls using strap-ons on their men), or men treating the men their sleeping with as if they are a woman, often insinuating his ass is a vagina. And do any of you like shemales or guys in lingerie?
For me, that kind of stuff turns me completely off. It's just weird for me, and I could never get into it. My attractions are very cisgendered, and I want my men to be men and my women to be women. If a girl wants to come at me with a dildo, fine no problem! But if she's gonna wear a synthetic penis and come at me, I'm running in the other direction. Same thing if a guy wants to act like he's some girl when I'm with him.
I'm just curious on the numbers of these things. Am I a common example? Or are many bi guys into some of the things that aren't really for me? No judgement or offense made or intended. And I understand individual likes vary, but it'd be kind of cool to get a poll!