Bi Guys: What are you into?

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I'm bisexual and I like my woman to be woman, and my man to be just that, a man! I don't watch bi-porn. Since I'm in a relationship with a woman, and we have sex on regular basics, most of my jack off porn is gay porn.

You jack off to gay porn because you need to maintain a balance? Or do you have gay semen and straight semen & if you don't regularly release both, they'll build up & there might be some sort of internal explosion?

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I'm equally attracted to boath sexes, and considering that I'm in relationship with a woman I get a lot of heterosexual action. I tend to be monogamous, so when I need to blow some steam in the way my woman can't provide me, I use gay porn. Is this difficult for you to understand?!
 

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I'm equally attracted to boath sexes, and considering that I'm in relationship with a woman I get a lot of heterosexual action. I tend to be monogamous, so when I need to blow some steam in the way my woman can't provide me, I use gay porn. Is this difficult for you to understand?!

No. My understanding is really rather good.

I just find it interesting that you don't either move from one side of the fence to the other, with several different consecutive relationships, over the long term or straddle the fence by having more than one relationship at a time. The use of gay porn while having a straight long term relationship seems a pragmatic solution.
 
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Cool topic.

I am also drawn to men that are masculine & athletic; while drawn to women that are feminine & petite.

Looking back, this has always been the case, but I was unable to articulate it. And now with the intrawebz, one can VISUALLY see the entire spectrum of different people in their birthday suits.

And as far as what I prefer within the bedroom...
hmm, well I am not a tittie guy - average is quite fine with me. But I have a tremendous weakness for ass on a woman. And I love seeing women's pussy [sorry ladies for being blunt but tis true! lol].
With guys, I'm more attracted to the muscularity and their backs, butts & legs. Especially if they're light to moderately hairy...I find myself mesmerized in a a lot of ways. That being said, I do have a weakness for thick cocks. That is something that I've always been fascinated with *shrugs*

And I've fantasized about MMFs before. I haven't done that; doubt it ever will - more a fantasy I guess. But the visual is something that is a big turn on with me being in the middle of it all.

But the reality of being attracted to both men & women is this: there isn't a one size fits all template for bisexuals.

You can be romantically interested in both men & women; or just the same sex; or just the opposite sex.

You can be sexually attracted to both men & women; or just the same sex; or just the opposite sex.

You can desire to have a relationship with both men & women; or just the same sex; or just the opposite sex.

And you can have any combination of all of these that may be CONSTANT or FLUID [changing over time].

It's a big reason why many NON-bisexuals are threatened by Bisexuality. It's not easy to pin down [double entendre intended lol] the definition.

You could have 10 bisexuals in the room, and have 10 different variations of bisexuality. And I didn't even delve into guys that enjoy cross-dressing or women that like pegging - which are both NOT my thing at all.

Anyways, thanks for creating the topic. And I l learned a new word, cisgender from all of this.
 

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What I do? Every form of straight sex imaginable. Except I don't get anal any more.
What I fantasize? Another guy and me tag teaming her, one after the other, until she can't take any more. Some double penetration. The other guy and me warming each other up, and then going wild with her.
 

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Pretty much the same as what has been posted.

Interested in guys that are masculine, have body hairy and a generally stocky, I guess.

With women, I am quite attracted to smaller girls, any color hair, and girly. girls who love lookin good gets me turned on, and actually, perfume makes me go crazy, lol.
 

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I completely relate with everything I've read thus far.
I've been bisexual for as long as I can remember.
A chiseled jaw line, and a nice physique will go a long way with me, as far as men are concerned. The preverbial "V" and a nice set of abs. That seems to be what I'm attracted to. Like not hulky, but in good shape.

As far as women are concerned, I'm a big fan of the hourglass figure. They don't need to have huge boobs, but shape goes a looooong way with me as well. And if they happen to be able to sing, I'm likely to fall in love. lol.

Defintely not attracted to feminine guys at all. If I want to be with a man he needs to be a man. That's all. lol. Drag queens just don't do it for me.

If I accidentally mistook a drag queen for an actual woman, and took her home with me, I'd probably be in shock and tell her to come back with pants on the next day.

That's just how I am. lol.
 

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Basically, I'm into what luvinlife, Something_Else and j are into. More specifically, I'm attracted to Northern European women (e.g. British, French or German) and Southern European men (e.g. Greek, Italian, Spanish). I love physically fit men and women but will find men with
a beer belly sexy. So many contradictions! :confused:

I have been attracted to men since I was 15-16 years old (raging hormones and phys ed!) but only accepted it decades later. This is strange because I grew up in a loving family that had liberal views. :confused: I consider myself to be slightly more attracted to men (sexually and romantically, so 60/40). In a relationship, I am loyal and don't miss the other sex.

As I grow older, I tend to notice the eyes before the body. Gorgeous eyes are hard for me to resist. I will also notice a good sense of humour and a warm smile.



Cool topic.

I am also drawn to men that are masculine & athletic; while drawn to women that are feminine & petite.

Looking back, this has always been the case, but I was unable to articulate it. And now with the intrawebz, one can VISUALLY see the entire spectrum of different people in their birthday suits.

And as far as what I prefer within the bedroom...
hmm, well I am not a tittie guy - average is quite fine with me. But I have a tremendous weakness for ass on a woman. And I love seeing women's pussy [sorry ladies for being blunt but tis true! lol].
With guys, I'm more attracted to the muscularity and their backs, butts & legs. Especially if they're light to moderately hairy...I find myself mesmerized in a a lot of ways. That being said, I do have a weakness for thick cocks. That is something that I've always been fascinated with *shrugs*

And I've fantasized about MMFs before. I haven't done that; doubt it ever will - more a fantasy I guess. But the visual is something that is a big turn on with me being in the middle of it all.

But the reality of being attracted to both men & women is this: there isn't a one size fits all template for bisexuals.

You can be romantically interested in both men & women; or just the same sex; or just the opposite sex.

You can be sexually attracted to both men & women; or just the same sex; or just the opposite sex.

You can desire to have a relationship with both men & women; or just the same sex; or just the opposite sex.

And you can have any combination of all of these that may be CONSTANT or FLUID [changing over time].

It's a big reason why many NON-bisexuals are threatened by Bisexuality. It's not easy to pin down [double entendre intended lol] the definition.

You could have 10 bisexuals in the room, and have 10 different variations of bisexuality. And I didn't even delve into guys that enjoy cross-dressing or women that like pegging - which are both NOT my thing at all.

Anyways, thanks for creating the topic. And I l learned a new word, cisgender from all of this.
 

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Same here.

I like straight and gay porn but cannot watch bisexual porn.
Watching two women engaging in sex also turns me off totally.


I completely relate with everything I've read thus far.
I've been bisexual for as long as I can remember.
A chiseled jaw line, and a nice physique will go a long way with me, as far as men are concerned. The preverbial "V" and a nice set of abs. That seems to be what I'm attracted to. Like not hulky, but in good shape.

As far as women are concerned, I'm a big fan of the hourglass figure. They don't need to have huge boobs, but shape goes a looooong way with me as well. And if they happen to be able to sing, I'm likely to fall in love. lol.

Defintely not attracted to feminine guys at all. If I want to be with a man he needs to be a man. That's all. lol. Drag queens just don't do it for me.

If I accidentally mistook a drag queen for an actual woman, and took her home with me, I'd probably be in shock and tell her to come back with pants on the next day.

That's just how I am. lol.
 

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Wow, how fascinating! Thanks all of you for responding to this thread. Me I can watch and and all kinds of porn: gay, straight, bisexual, and lesbian. I can get turned on by it all! Although I do agree, it's usually best to have a penis to associate with in them. I love all the flavors that bisexuality can encompass! What fun!

Oh and thanks for all the love for me and my pics too! :D
 

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Yes, I am a bisexual man. And yes, I like men AND women. But I'm curious about what other bi guys are into, besides gender, sexually. What kind of kink or fetishes do you have and how does your desire for men and women shape them? Is it different for each?

I notice in a lot of the bisexual porn I see, there is frequent pegging (aka girls using strap-ons on their men), or men treating the men their sleeping with as if they are a woman, often insinuating his ass is a vagina. And do any of you like shemales or guys in lingerie?

For me, that kind of stuff turns me completely off. It's just weird for me, and I could never get into it. My attractions are very cisgendered, and I want my men to be men and my women to be women. If a girl wants to come at me with a dildo, fine no problem! But if she's gonna wear a synthetic penis and come at me, I'm running in the other direction. Same thing if a guy wants to act like he's some girl when I'm with him.

I'm just curious on the numbers of these things. Am I a common example? Or are many bi guys into some of the things that aren't really for me? No judgement or offense made or intended. And I understand individual likes vary, but it'd be kind of cool to get a poll!

i’m mostly in to girls but i’ve always liked showing off in the locker room or when i take a piss. when i was a sophomore in college, my str8 roomie and i used to jack together watching porn. no big deal. but i knew he watched my dick more than the pussy porn! HA.

once, he leaned over and sucked a load out of me. i was kind of hooked after that. even though we both had GFs, he would swallow my load at least once a week. fucking love seeing a masculine, mostly str8 or str8 acting guy work my cock like he’s hungry for it. don’t really get in to fucking though. love getting blown and stroking a mate while he sucks me off.
 

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Yes, I am a bisexual man. And yes, I like men AND women. But I'm curious about what other bi guys are into, besides gender, sexually. What kind of kink or fetishes do you have and how does your desire for men and women shape them? Is it different for each?

I notice in a lot of the bisexual porn I see, there is frequent pegging (aka girls using strap-ons on their men), or men treating the men their sleeping with as if they are a woman, often insinuating his ass is a vagina. And do any of you like shemales or guys in lingerie?

For me, that kind of stuff turns me completely off. It's just weird for me, and I could never get into it. My attractions are very cisgendered, and I want my men to be men and my women to be women. If a girl wants to come at me with a dildo, fine no problem! But if she's gonna wear a synthetic penis and come at me, I'm running in the other direction. Same thing if a guy wants to act like he's some girl when I'm with him.

I'm just curious on the numbers of these things. Am I a common example? Or are many bi guys into some of the things that aren't really for me? No judgement or offense made or intended. And I understand individual likes vary, but it'd be kind of cool to get a poll!

I'm pretty much the same - I like my guys to be guys, and women to be women. If I want a dick, I'd like a guy to go along with it. Same with women - curves, etc., are great - no need for pegging.

I've found that I have attractions to transgender people, and even some androgynous people, but that's less common. "Cisgender" isn't so important as someone who is comfortable in the gender they have.

As far as porn is concerned, I like all sorts of combinations - MM, MF, FF, MMF, MFF, etc. But what's more important is that they need to look like they are genuinely enjoying themselves and each other. A lot of porn is not very well staged and comes across as fake. Forget that - give me a hot amateur vid with people who get into each other, and I'm ready to pop.
 

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You jack off to gay porn because you need to maintain a balance? Or do you have gay semen and straight semen & if you don't regularly release both, they'll build up & there might be some sort of internal explosion?

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The guy likes men and women. He satisfies his desires for sex with women by having sex with his girlfriend, and he satisfies his desires for sex with men by watching gay porn. What is so difficult to understand about that?
 
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The guy likes men and women. He satisfies his desires for sex with women by having sex with his girlfriend, and he satisfies his desires for sex with men by watching gay porn. What is so difficult to understand about that?

Thank you!
 

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I am bi. I like men because the relation is more pysical and women because it's more cerebral. But, i think like J.-J. Rousseau (philosopher) : "we fall in love of one person before falling in love with a gender."
 

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I've given up on trying to put percentages on my straight/gay characteristics. Like most of the posters before me I definitely prefer masculine men and feminine women, but the workings of their minds are more important than their demeanor.

With women my heart can go all aflutter and emotions play a big role in the interaction. I make love to women.

But with men it's all about COCK (and balls), purely physical, hedonistic, hot fun times. So I guess you could say that the male/male side of my bisexuality is quite shallow. But I do still enjoy the friendships and intellectual exchanges I've had with my male sex partners. That deeper level of interaction with a guy isn't necessary for me to enjoy his cock, but it adds a lot to the equation.
 

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This gay vs. straight/bi debate I'm sure has been around since the beginning of time and will more than likely rage on well after any of our lives have ended. The gay or ‘mostly gay’ males will continue to attempt to convince everyone that EVERY male is ‘gay’ and can’t possible have any desire to be otherwise while the straight/mostly straight/bi guys will continue to argue that while all males may have the same ‘equipment’ the desires for sexual fulfillment varies widely and greatly. I personally don’t care what ‘title’ you give yourself so long as you are respective to the title I choose to give myself. I find it highly suspect that anyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation, wouldn’t find themselves willing and able to bend the rules of ‘titles’ while in the throes of sexual gratification. I consider myself ‘straight’, but I’m here to tell you if the woman I’m with, and I love her will my entire being, asked me to suck a guys cock clean after he fucked her, and I could have her with the hot red head woman on our street I’m here to tell you I’m 99% sure I’m sucking that dick! I’m sure will beat the drum that I’m latently homosexual with that statement and frankly who really cares. I do not have any desire to go one-on-one with a guy and the thought of kissing another man repulses me.

My ex-wife was bi and oddly enough, I never heard any of the gay women argue this point of ‘every woman is really gay’. It seems only the males want to argue and debate the validity of someone’s sexual desire or ‘title’. It is at times amusing but also HIGHLY annoying.
 

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That is sooo the case Sirramm.

But yea I agree with everyone. Masculine men and feminine woman but do you guys tell the woman your bi? I feel like if I want to start a relationship I should even though I've never cheated in my life, I feel like that's the first thing they'll think of. If its a one night stand then I don't. Saying I'm bi to a girl seems to slim the odds of hooking up :frown1: