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My only advice is to not fool around on your spouse without knowledge/consent. I live in a deeply Evangelical part of Michigan -- literally Betsy DeVos's hometown.
Grindr now, and especially Craigslist before it took down the Personals section, were filled with a "the usual suspects" for a local culture like ours: Gay, bi or bi-curious men whose family situation absolutely brooked no dissent from the "marry young and pray daily" mindset. So a lot of these guys experimented on the down-low. Which was a problem given that they didn't engage with the LGBT community so they didn't really think in terms of sexual safety.
Some of these unwitting wives ended up with STIs. Which is a huge problem.
I'd advise anyone to follow one simple rule: If you can't be honest about what you're doing and why you're doing it, either don't do it, or change your circumstances to ensure that you can live honestly.
Grindr now, and especially Craigslist before it took down the Personals section, were filled with a "the usual suspects" for a local culture like ours: Gay, bi or bi-curious men whose family situation absolutely brooked no dissent from the "marry young and pray daily" mindset. So a lot of these guys experimented on the down-low. Which was a problem given that they didn't engage with the LGBT community so they didn't really think in terms of sexual safety.
Some of these unwitting wives ended up with STIs. Which is a huge problem.
I'd advise anyone to follow one simple rule: If you can't be honest about what you're doing and why you're doing it, either don't do it, or change your circumstances to ensure that you can live honestly.