Married three times here to women and finally decided to hit the reset button and explore my bi/gay side. Been at it for a few years now and love it so far, but have recently thought what would happen if I were to run into someone I thought I could settle down with or at least be great friends with benefits? I find that there are tons of gay or single bi guys who SAY they are looking for a relationship, but when push comes to shove they are not interested in putting in the work to find out if it's a fit or not?