Bi Or Straight But Curious?

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I usually ask myself, am I bisexual or straight but curious. I've done this with a guy. Kiss, bj, but that's all, I don't like giving or receiving anal sex, and I'm sexually attracted to both men and women.
 
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Idk, is it bad that I am? :(
Whatever you label it, it’s possible that with time... the label could change depending on what you’ve become comfortable with. Seriously though it’s no one else’s business what you like to do sexually. And we should not be shamed for enjoying sexual pleasures With men or women.
 

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But why do you need to label it? Who exactly are you trying to appease or satisfy by labelling yourself? Because quite frankly it's no one's business but your own. So many people spend a lot of stress and frustration giving themselves a label instead of just living in the moment and living with whatever wonderful pleasure they may enjoy. If someone asks you, you don't need to get offended or make a scene, just say you're "open". If they pry on it, simply say there's nothing really else to talk about and ask why it matters and move on.

Have sex (with permission obviously) with whoever you want to. Love whoever you want to.

Life's far too short to worry about things like labels.
 

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Idk, is it bad that I am? :(

No its not bad to try a label, however the labels rarely fit.
From what you put in the OP you are bi, nothing wrong in not liking anal many guys don't the main thing is enjoy the company and interaction with your partners male or female and explore your sexual preferences
 

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No its not bad to try a label, however the labels rarely fit.
From what you put in the OP you are bi, nothing wrong in not liking anal many guys don't the main thing is enjoy the company and interaction with your partners male or female and explore your sexual preferences

Well said my friend!
 
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Consider myself on the lower spectrum of Bi. Like cock play and trading handjobs, but that is pretty much the extent.

Saw my best friend bathe a few times. Very attractive cock and balls to me. One night we got drunk and started to play around. Decided to suck that lovely cock. Got down there and it smelled like a cock. (imagine that) That changed my mind and I got out of that area. Might have been a different story if he was fresh out of the shower, who knows? No matter how it would have ended, I would not want cum in my mouth.

Ended up jerking each other off, which I enjoyed very much! I like cocks, just not the man attached.
Same with blowjobs, I let a couple guys suck me before. If I feel whiskers on my cock and balls, the game is over. Total turn off for me! To each their own and I don't judge.
 
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I think you are only "bi curious" if you have just thought about it but didn't actually engage in any sexual activity with a male. Once you do something and try it, and you find you like it and may want to do it again, you are simply bi. If you find you no longer have any interest in women sexually, then you may consider yourself gay.

I think most humans are bisexual to one degree or another!
 
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Based on what you said, I would speculate you are bisexual. I think bisexuality in guys gets bad rep sometimes. Some have used the term to describe themselves before full realization they are gay, I would speculate in part to soften the blow of the news to family or friends. My first sexual experience was with a woman and I enjoyed it. I had no trouble being around and achieving an orgasm with her but it still wasn't what I thought it was going to be. After my first experience with a man, I told myself I must be bi. After seeing a therapist, I reached the conclusion that I am gay.

Most guys I've dated or slept with I've asked have been with women at a point in their lives before realizing they were gay. Bisexual guys have sometimes been ostracized by gay guys with words like "you are lying to yourself" or "just using that as a cover". I have the idea (I could be wrong) that most women wouldn't be thrilled with the idea their boyfriend or husband had previously been with men or even had some attractions to them. Several years back I was drinking with one of my straight, married buds. We were both pretty buzzed when he brought up how he and another male friend of his had played around sexually a few times before they were both married. Neither man had ever brought it up and he hadn't told his wife before. It was well before they met so he didn't bring it up. I suspect that's more common than people realize.

I definitely think there is a spectrum and there are probably many more people with bisexual inclinations than anyone realizes.
 

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No its not bad to try a label, however the labels rarely fit.
From what you put in the OP you are bi, nothing wrong in not liking anal many guys don't the main thing is enjoy the company and interaction with your partners male or female and explore your sexual preferences
Nice post......labels aren't important.....but if pressed I'd say you are bisexual...which is NOT a bad thing....if it turns you on and feels good, then its all good......
 

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You'll love it.......once you have felt and tasted another man's cock....that warm, silky-smooth hardness, throbbing flesh in your mouth....uuummmm.....you'll want more and more.......
Sure, get me all excited now!
 
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Sure, get me all excited now!
LOL....just want to encourage you my friend. I was once "where you are"...very curious....for years actually....until I just made my mind up and gave it a try......and it was really really good.......hope you have a good experience moving forward. Peace.
 

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I have found that over the decades, I have loved participating in a number of different sex acts. I like whatever it is I like...and that's okay. I may not like it next year, I may find something else to like. I go along this road and keep the things I like, discard the ones I don't. Sometimes I accommodate for others, to make them happy. Sometimes they accommodate me. But no matter what, I like both men and women,,,preferably together at the same time.
 
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If you're sexually attracted to both men and women you are bi even if you never have sex.

The limits of sexual activity you have with each and the preference you have for one over the over doesn't change the definition.
 

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I have found that over the decades, I have loved participating in a number of different sex acts. I like whatever it is I like...and that's okay. I may not like it next year, I may find something else to like. I go along this road and keep the things I like, discard the ones I don't. Sometimes I accommodate for others, to make them happy. Sometimes they accommodate me. But no matter what, I like both men and women,,,preferably together at the same time.
You sound like you've got an incredibly healthy outlook on your sexuality. Enjoy, man!