Do you believe that one can be sexually bi and not romantically? I have always been turned on by sex with another guy and girl. Especially a well hung guy. Mostly oral turns me on. I never have any desire to kiss or hug with a guy. I prefer females for relationships and enjoy sex with them as well.
Actually, I think this is the most prevalent norm in bisexuality.
Most of us have some definitive preference fro romantic interest.
You are not gay for having sex with guys, but because you feel romantic attraction to men.
And what makes you straight is that it is women that you want to kiss and cuddle up with...
Sex, however, has a purely physical stimulation component that allows it to be somewhat separated from romance.
I think the rarest form of sexuality is the person who is precisely equally attracted to romantic involvement with BOTH sexes.
I think most Bisexuals are predominantly Gay or Straight people who also have the ability to appreciate the beauty, and sensual pleasure of both sexes.
BTW- the second rarest form of sexuality would be those people who have absolutely ZERO sexual response to one of the genders.
Despite the many claiming to be 100% gay or straight... sex and arousal studies show clearly that for most of them that is just a front.
The only thing odd about being interested in sex with both, but only romance with one, is the ability to admit it publicly.