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rodsmith: There are so many of us out there, how many of you have shared your secret with a friend or have been successful in finding a local buddy in the same frame of mind?
Hmmm, I think the both of you are missing his point thus far. [/quote
Yeah, i got it.
My answers to rod's two questions were yeah,
it was hard to share my secret with other guys,
and
yes, it was hard to find a like minded "buddy".
I, too, had girlfriends...and it was ok, for a long,
long time...at least sexually.
But emotionally, it was never, ever what is is for
me with a guy.
I really had a lot of worry and confusion
about it, but no...not loathing.
Just wished i could talk to someone who 'got it".
But,preinternet...i did not know
where to read about it or find anyone.
Labels or not, DMW, they're convenient and simultaneously limiting with regard to how others identify with the individual.
All I know is, I took too long of my life trying to figure out my own feelings, so I'm not about to let people limit those years of growth.