Big boob obsession - advice needed

[deepvoicedan]

I have always liked big natural boobs. Straight men are meant to find breasts alluring: it's part of our natural instinct to procreate.

But recently I'm worried it has turned into an obsession for me. I'm in relationship with a wonderful woman with smaller breasts and I never want to cheat or hurt her in any way. But I can't get over the desire to see, touch and make love to a woman with big natural breasts.

How can I get over this?!

 

[deepvoicedan]

I think that's true. And unfortunately it's another feature of our need to procreate: we just have to try to ignore it.

I have thought "what if I was the sort of guy who cheats?" and I came to the conclusion that even if I had great sex one time with a naturally busty woman, it wouldn't be enough: I'd want to do it again. I have slept with busty women in the past and it hasn't sated my desire.

I'd still be interested to know what women think: well-endowed or otherwise.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I'm not a psychologist.

 

[950483]

Your girlfriend doesn't need to be in a relationship with someone who feels that she is substandard in anyway. The last two men I've been with previously had larger girlfriends with larger breasts, in fact one of them had the most enormous breasts I've ever seen! Also there is a man I see around sometimes, who looks and tries to flirt with me, and his girlfriend has very large breasts. He will even do it while she is standing next to him, (what a cunt). I think a lot of men just like ALL the breasts. Spilt up with your girlfriend if your heart is not really in it, and then go on a large breasts adventure if that is what you would like to do.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I see this no differently than a woman wanting to have sex with a larger guy because her body responds best when it's being pushed to the limits. But she'd never tell her guy or make him feel bad for it. Nor does she plan on leaving him. It's a bit of a fetish-y fantasy sort of thing. Women have the option of getting bigger sex toys to accommodate their desires but men don't have that option if he wants to experience a woman with larger breasts so that really sucks for them.

I love breasts too, way more than the average person does. Probably more than the average man does. lol

Oh and let's not forget that plenty of gay men love boobs too.

 

[693987]

I have always liked big natural boobs. Straight men are meant to find breasts alluring: it's part of our natural instinct to procreate.

But recently I'm worried it has turned into an obsession for me. I'm in relationship with a wonderful woman with smaller breasts and I never want to cheat or hurt her in any way. But I can't get over the desire to see, touch and make love to a woman with big natural breasts.

How can I get over this?!

REALLY? The only time I've been motor boated was by gay men. I've had my tits grabbed by probably more women than men.

As for getting over it, I don't know. I've never had a borderline obsession with a particular physical feature/ trait.

 

[deepvoicedan]

Your husband is a lucky man (that doesn't mean I don't think I'm lucky too BTW anyone reading this!) And it looks like you're lucky to have him too!

I see this no differently than a woman wanting to have sex with a larger guy because her body responds best when it's being pushed to the limits. But she'd never tell her guy or make him feel bad for it. Nor does she plan on leaving him. It's a bit of a fetish-y fantasy sort of thing. Women have the option of getting bigger sex toys to accommodate their desires but men don't have that option if he wants to experience a woman with larger breasts so that really sucks for them.

I love breasts too, way more than the average person does. Probably more than the average man does. lol

Oh and let's not forget that plenty of gay men love boobs too.

 

[deepvoicedan]

REALLY? The only time I've been motor boated was by gay men. I've had my tits grabbed by probably more women than men.

As for getting over it, I don't know. I've never had a borderline obsession with a particular physical feature/ trait.

Motor boating doesn't really do much for me. I want to hold them, feel the nipples between my fingers and watch them bounce and swing.

 

[693987]

Motor boating doesn't really do much for me. I want to hold them, feel the nipples between my fingers and watch them bounce and swing.

Still. Your "Straight men are meant to find breasts alluring: it's part of our natural instinct to procreate." is pretty absurd.

And that's great and all. Hurray, you want to hold them, watch them bounce and swing. Fabulous. I have a physical preference, but it has never been enough of a requirement that I haven't dated wildly varying people. If you so love your woman, then love and appreciate her, and continue to watch porn, admire from afar, whatever the big ol titties you crave.

 

[deepvoicedan]

Straight men are designed to find breasts sexually attractive. We are ingrained with desires to procreate and our children need to be fed. Of course in the modern world these desires are unnecessary but they remain.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I have small tits. Especially on my frame, because I have broad shoulders and can't get rid of the slightly 'buff' body type I happen to have. I'm pretty sure my guy has similar thoughts as you deepvoicedan. I don't know if he 'obsesses' over it... but it isn't the best feeling in the world to know that he likes bigger tits and that I won't ever have that unless I undergo surgery, which I don't think is ever gonna be a real option for me. It shouldn't matter that much to me, but it is one of those things that gets under my skin if I think about it too much.

I have no advice... all I can say is this has thoroughly reminded me of this: Big Booby Envy. | LPSG

 

[918177]

As a woman with larger breasts I have a deep seated, ingrained desire to NOT procreate with a man who fetishizes a body part.

Because that is what it is.
A fetish and please spare me the pseudo science babble.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I have no problem with someone having a body part fetish. As long as I'm more than just life-support for his fetishized part, it's all good. I have my weird-but-harmless fetish. He may have his.