jess: basically all the well endowed guys I've had sexual realtionships with over the last few years have been pretty bad in bed. they're just lazy.. i mean let's say we're on the 4th date or wahtever kissing passionately, the guys seem to have this urge to pull down their pants and whip out their boners to just say.. 'suck and fuck it baby' (one guy actually said that). and they just lie back and want me to do all the work :shrug: whereas some of the less 'well endowed'/average sized guys are much more delicate and tender. they would kiss all over and take this slowly. i much prefer this does anyone else find this sometimes?