big but lazy

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  1. Imported

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    jess: basically all the well endowed guys I've had sexual realtionships with over the last few years have been pretty bad in bed. they're just lazy.. i mean let's say we're on the 4th date or wahtever kissing passionately, the guys seem to have this urge to pull down their pants and whip out their boners to just say.. 'suck and fuck it baby' (one guy actually said that). and they just lie back and want me to do all the work :shrug:


    whereas some of the less 'well endowed'/average sized guys are much more delicate and tender. they would kiss all over and take this slowly. i much prefer this

    does anyone else find this sometimes?
     
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    While I don't agree with your generalization that 'all the well enowded guys...have been pretty bad in bed', I have noticed that a fair number of big guys do have that 'do me' attitude. But then I have also noticed the same thing with really handsome guys too. There are exceptions, of course, but the most memorable sex I've had has been with guys who were more average in both looks and size as they, like Avis, seem to try harder.
     
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    :rofl: life imitating bad pornos ... priceless. fuck, if someone said that to me I'd just fall over laughing.

    I don't know that dick size has much to do with it. I think we've all known lazy and/or selfish lovers with various degress of endowment.
     
  4. BruceSter

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    Hmmm... male size queen syndrome, I'd say - actually I'm more accustomed to that kind of sexual behavior from (self-acclaimed) size queens, who wish to be fucked without returning anything. That's not the kind of sex I like, when you consider it as an either-or situation of either getting good size, but bad sex, or average size and good sex.

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    whereas some of the less &#39;well endowed&#39;/average sized guys are much more delicate and tender. they would kiss all over and take this slowly. i much prefer this

    does anyone else find this sometimes?
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    I don&#39;t know how much that goes for women, but I tend to have a better memory for the quality of the sex than for the bra size of the woman I had it with (unless she&#39;s exceptionally flat/busty), so I&#39;m sure the better sex - even when it&#39;s with an average-sized dick - can be ranked higher. Agree with you here.

    Bruce
     
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    I got a bf who&#39;s pretty hot and endowed, he&#39;s a litte bit forward with the sex, but he really tries to pleasure me with kisses, rubs, and suckings on different places. Guess there are a few god ones out there if you keep on looking.
     
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    I know a guy who is called "dead fuck" by a number of his former tricks. Apparently, he has a big dick and just lays there for service. He knows guys call him this and doesn&#39;t care. He told me, "they like it, so whatever."
     
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    Of the 5 men I&#39;ve known, who I would classify as "huge,", one was outstandingly, excitingly good in bed, one was OK, the other 3 were just downright boring - would have been more fun by myself with a similar-sized dildo. I don&#39;t think it is that they are lazy, I think it has more to do with them realizing that they have unusually large endowment, and mistakenly believing that is all that is required to be a good fuck - to occupy lots of cubic inches in an ass or mouth.

    A good lover, gay or straight, top or bottom, male or female, understands that sexual satisfaction is more than just inducing an orgasm. It is all about making sure that your partner and you BOTH derive as much physical pleasure as possible from the experience. In most, if not all cases, that involves just a LITTLE more than just poking a cock into a hole and wiggling it around.
     
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    And offering the obligatory grunt once in awhile.

    Well said, DC. You&#39;re on a roll this week&#33; :happy:
     
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    Just politely respond, "Oh, no&#33; After you&#33;"
     
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    I have had that in the past and when they just sit there and dont give back...I simply get up and leave...sorry If I am not going to get any, well you wont either from me.

    I dont care if your dick is big...I expect to be pleasured...too

    thank you
     
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    I don&#39;t know if this applies or sheds any light on the subject but I&#39;ll offer it anyway. When I was just becoming sexually active with girls who were similarly inexperienced it seemed easier to be the more passive partner. They seemed less anxious and experienced less discomfort. After more than a few unsuccessful relationships and a bad experience or two I met my wife. It is with her that I learned the art of love making and with me she learned to make love to a well endowed man.
     
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  13. madame_zora

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    I think it has a lot to do with the guy&#39;s perception of his own endowment. I&#39;ve met more than a few men who were well endowed who were fairly unaware of this, statistically. Not all guys see other men naked, contrary to popular belief here. I&#39;ve met some who knew they were larger but didn&#39;t make a big deal out of it. Still others were frustrated by it, some learned to live with it. A few were really proud of it and appreciated my attention. In all honesty, I haven&#39;t met a big dicked lazy guy who just wanted to be serviced. I&#39;m sure they&#39;re out there, but I&#39;d walk right out the door if anyone ever acted like that to me.
     
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    As Jana said, I really didn&#39;t know I was bigger than average until I started having sex. The only erect penis I&#39;d ever seen in person was my own, so it looked &#39;normal&#39; to me. :)

    When the 2nd, 3rd, etc. .... women I was intimate with all said the same thing, I finally started to believe that my size might be bigger than average. ;)

    Do I ever let that knowledge make me lazy in bed? No way&#33; A major part of my enjoyment of sex is the pleasure I am generating with the woman I am with. A turned on woman is a major turn-on for me, so I would &#39;work it&#39; even if I was a foot long&#33;

    LapDog :p
     
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    I have to agree with Lapdog. I get my kicks out of giving someone else pleasure. I don&#39;t even have to come if I know that I have really given somebody something to remember. I would rather be known as a really considerate lover than just some guy with a big cock.
     
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    Maybe it&#39;s all the blood rushing away from the upper head that makes them lethargic. :+
     
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    Although giving pleasure to a woman gives me pleasure, I certainly want to have an orgasm myself&#33; What&#39;s the point if you&#39;re not going to have an orgasm? To cum while inside a woman (in whatever way, whatever position) who is satified is a great way to end the act&#33;

    LapDog :p
     
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    Well I spose my endowment might be classed as &#39;big&#39; but I&#39;m certainly not lazy. I love to make a girl cum, as many times as possible. I actually found that the girl was lazy. I myself though am not lazy, I like to try my best. I need to practice my oral skills though, my tongue starts to ache after a (short) while :p
     
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    I&#39;ve been lucky enough to have had guys do more than just lay there and expect me to do all the work. By being actively involved in making your partner feel good, you can definitely expect the same favor back&#33; Sex is a 2 way street, you can&#39;t take and not receive&#33; ladsoncub and madame zora hit it right on, if they just lay there I would leave too&#33;
     
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    For me, actually, sometimes I&#39;ll be on the edge, and her orgasm&#39;s enough to send me over. If I cum first, I&#39;ll still keep at it, though.

    I tend to be very, shall we say, creative. Sometimes what I do doesn&#39;t work, so I try something else.
     
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