Thanks for all the nice replies, I have kind of always lived with those mottos but lately my soft dick has really lowered my self confidence. my limp dick usually ranges a lot but I guess if I had to pick my average limp size it would is usually between 4 to 3 inches long and 3.5 to 3 inches around. Now if I'm working out at the gym, this thing gets really small. I've never been able to measure it when its that small, but Im sure it would be something rediculously small like a little kids. This is when I get a lot of the annoying comments around friends, like when we play basketball or lift weights it looks like I have just a head and nothing else from my shorts. It's weird that some guys can stay pretty big while doing strenous activity while mine shrivels to a kid size. I'm very happy with my erect size honestly, wish I had .5 inches more girth, but I cant complain. I would love to increase my size while limp, I know its vain, but I know it would help my self confidence because lets face it, most of the time its limp. i dont feel like I can say things like, "well it grows a lot when it gets hard" because someone will just say, "so does mine".
Girls have never complained, a few have said it was big, most dont comment on the size, but again haven't complained. The first girl I ever hooked up with though saw my dick while I was very scared and a combination of being too drunk and already having masturbated twice that day did not leave much there. She didn't make fun, but I'm sure she thought I wasnt working with much. Again thanks for all the nice comments, you guys have made me feel better