Let me tell you about a real experience I had:
I used to work with a woman that was a little on the larger size, not BBW just larger framed with a little extra padding. Anyone that saw her would consider her very female and really quite pretty. I got to know her pretty well from day-to-day interactions between our departments and one night I was invited to join her and a group of coworkers at a local bar.
After a good time at the bar, several of us were invited to continue festivities back at her apartment which was just down the road. A few of us went along with the plan and went back to her place, but as the evening went on the others had to leave for various commitments. I was young and single and she was in no hurry to throw me out so I stuck around. As we were already pretty friendly at work, as the night went on and the drinks continued to flow I got it in my head to see if I could make things "friendlier".
At first she was hesitant as we worked together, but as we talked more she realized I wasn't the kind of guy that would make things difficult for her at work. We started kissing, then I got her going to the point where I got her top off and unhooked her bra to reveal some of the most amazing, perfectly-shaped D-cup breasts I've ever seen. Of course they were natural, this was the early 80's. From there things heated up fast and we were headed back to her bedroom.
She excused herself to the bathroom and when she reappeared she was in a robe which as we kissed again was dropped to the floor. There she was fully naked in all her glory; those perfect breasts, wide hips and a wide patch of "fur" between her legs. We moved over to the bed and started touching. It was then I made the discovery.
As I reached between her legs, she felt like any other woman and in this case a woman with a very wet pussy. But, as played with her more I quickly noticed her clit felt really noticeable, then obvious, then nearly the size of the tip of my thumb!
I pulled her into a 69 position so I could get a better view and my oh my what a view it was. She had a clit about 2/3 the size of the one in the photos/website earlier in the thread. I had never seen anything like this but it didn't take me long to see it as and advantage - as has been said, you knew when she was aroused, and frankly it was a blast to lick and suck. She really responded to playing with it!
The night progressed well with a whole lot of fucking and not a lot of sleep. Things went OK at work the next day - yes, it was a little funny thinking about what I'd discovered but we both had a great time. I'd really wanted to have her again, but shortly after our encounter she got back together with a boyfriend she'd split with just before. Never got to enjoy her again.
Been with many women before and since, never a clit even close to that. Could never have guessed she'd be that one woman.