Big cock = less fun?

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by JustHangin', Mar 21, 2008.

  1. JustHangin'

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    Well not always, i can only talk based on my own experiences! I AM IN SERIOUS NEED OF A BLOWJOB RIGHT NOW, LOL but as i was fantasizing in my head i remembered that .. i have never been deepthroated!!!:frown1: i have asked all the girls who BJ me and they were always like, "i cant get pass the middle"... some of then couldnt even go farther than the head! also, no one has ever let me try anal!! they complain that my girth is gonna really hurt them and ok i understand ... but you know what??? I WANNA FEEL THOSE THINGS!

    Of course maybe it has been my luck on the women i have slept with, but sometimes having a "bigger than average" cock equals less fun.. or maybe not less fun but less activities to choose from... i dunno... just droppin some thoughts... anyone wanna share similar experiences?
     
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    There have been a few guys, one that I had a two year fling with, who would not let me enter him. He was afraid it would hurt too much.
    But he swalled like a champ.
    No complaints from women, but I haven't been able to convince them to go back door.
     
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    Same for me, I've never been deepthroated and I've never been given the okay for anal. For years I just kind of took it for granted that people couldn't swallow down to the bottom of anyone's dick and never really thought about it. Likewise, I also just assumed that all girls were reluctant to try anal regardless of size. But knowing there are people out there willing and able to do these things has made me really curious as to what it's like.
     
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    ah to sleep, per chance to dream, maybe even a wet one.
    Good hunting let me know how you make out or in.
     
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    I Was Just Talking About This The Other Day With A Chick Through Text Message....and yes i was tryna play the sympathy/intrigue/challenge card...I Wasn't Successful...But I'm Sure The Seed Is Planted....

    it really is a sad epidemic sweeping the nation...mouths are shrinking everywhere....it's the vitamin water
     
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    I still have yet to find a girl who can deep throat me completely, I did find one who could get like 75% of the way.


    Anal ONE girl let me try and I popped the head in and she screamed and I pulled out. We never talked about that again. Lol.
     
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    I tend to agree.

    One woman will only play with him. Just too big for her.

    Another wont let me up inside her. "It will spoil it for her and anyone who comes after me."

    Strangely she could take the lot down her throat and love it.

    She was "Queen of the Cocksuckers".

    She would suck a packet of 'soothers' (a mediated sweet for sore throats) first.
     
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    Deepthroat advice: I don't know if you want advice or just to lament your situation... LOL... , but here are some tips (from experience, I've had more than 1000 sex partners... GRIN... yep... ah, it's good to have a big dick...) (oh, and no STDs here either). I've tried to indicate gay or straight advice:

    1) STRAIGHT: Sadly, with your sizes, if your wife/girlfriend has never deepthroated before, it's unlikely you're going to have a good experience (teeth, upchuck, tears, arguments, etc.). I've only had one "conversion" where a woman kept trying after the first couple of failed attempts and learned to like it. It takes a submissive attitude to mentally be ready to deepthroat and swallow. If you want them to practice, get the softest, jelly dildo, about 10" (usually in purple is what I've seen), and not too thick.. VERY VERY VERY SOFT and floppy.. and set up a routine time for them to try with you controlling the depth.. it takes trust and patience... and yes, alot of gagging and tearful looks... If that's not your partner, read on...

    2) STRAIGHT/GAY: I checked out your pics, all very impressive and I can definitively say that Slant, Just Hangin, Daoh and Lafitte, you are all "deepthroatable", in fact you will definitely have a great time if you get to try it and I think there are many people who could provide that service. Unfortunately, Mantubella, you are too thick for most, and you might need to seek out someone who is older, more likely male, to handle you. You can ask me and I can recommend someone in NYC who can do it... :)

    3) STRAIGHT/GAY: Men like slipperiness in a blowjob and it's critical for getting into a throat. If you have a partner who isn't completely turned on by swallowing you whole, it's unlikely you'll get the saliva you need to get "in and down". I recommend that you have a Snapple nearby, and encourage your sucker to take a sip and swish every now and then, the saliva glands will respond well to this. Don't let your partner eat anything for 4 hours before you start this... Morning is the best time to try to get down your partner's throat, it's a scientific fact that the gag reflex is less active directly after the sleep cycle.

    4) GAY: Only experts are going to want you to hold their head down all the way on your dick. This is a particular fetish for guys, and (surprise) gay guys are more likely to want to do this for you than women. I have never found a woman who liked to be forced to choke or gag on a dick - they do exist, but they usually find their way into porn or into escorting. Ask your expert if they "swallow" and if so, you can probably get agressive toward the end if you warn them you are close to cumming...

    5) GAY: I know most of you are 100% straight, but you might want to try letting a gay guy do it one time (with straight porn playing on the TV), just to get it out of your system - c'mon you only live once, the worst thing that could happen is you have something to laugh about on this site, but the upside is... HOLY MOLY!! Yes, there are nice gay guys who are masculine, straight acting, disease free, discrete with good personalities who won't stalk you afterward. You can even tell them, you want to try it once, and not to expect more. Meet them at a motel or hotel if you must, but if you want the best porn, you'll probably have to go to their place - and tell them what kind of porn you like, yes, they'll have it or get it for you... LOL. Don't choose someone you know, it can fuck things up socially, Get a good looking guy to do it, don't settle for the first guy who says he can do it... trust me, you'll thank me later.

    6) STRAIGHT/GAY: it's been debated alot but the research that I trust says you can't get HIV from getting sucked (unless blood is exposed, and none of us is planning on that). I still choose to ask and require only HIVneg partners - not a perfect science, but it does eliminate some candidates, the other thing I trust is a referral from someone you know. You could wear a condom while getting sucked, but for some reason it does cause more of a gag reflex in the sucker. If you do want to wear a condom for deepthroating, don't create a large reservoir for the cum, make it snug, but do coat the inside of the head area of the condom with lube, it will make it feel better for you. Flavoured condoms work better with women than men suckers.

    7) GAY: If you get an expert gay sucker, he will probably use poppers (Amyl Nitrate). I don't see this much with women, and they're not addictive or illegal (except Massachusetts, sorry Slant). It's inhaled and causes many good side effects in the sucker. I don't recommend it for you as the suckee if you're new to this. Just don't be worried about it if the sucker pulls out a small brown bottle and holds it up to his nose while he's sucking you.

    And finally, if you do get/know of a good gay sucker, let me know how to contact him! GRIN And if you want to contact me further, bring it on!
     
  9. JustHangin'

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    Well deepthroat4u i wasnt sure if i was lookin for advice or just get ppl to share similar stories... however ur post was really professional! but in the end ur advice is something like, try a gay guy??? maybe for the others here thats doable but im pretty sure i wanna stick to women even though they dont let me do more stuff to them :frown1:

    but maybe u can give me and the guys in this situation more advice, u seem to know ur way around this subject.... my main problem is that girls already have a hard time getting my girth in, so they r totally scared of doing anal and as for deepthroatin, they have trouble with girth and length...... one of the girls i asked she wanted to do it, she really wanted to try and we tried (no tears a little gaggin) but she couldnt do it all the way........ got any advice for that? how can i relax a woman's throat or what could i do in that situation to at least get the DT?
     
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    i love to suck my friends cock, he says he likes it when i go all the way down, he is like 6" by 4", not to big but all i need. he only tried to suck my dick one time, he could only get the head in and his teeth were kind of scraping the head a bit, he has yet to try it again(im 7.5" by 6"). i have this 8" jelly dong tht i love to play with. one time i let him ram it in my ass for 10 min till i came real hard, he said it looked like it hurt, i told him a little bit ,but it feels great, he said he wanted to try, said ok, so i told him to lay on his back so i could suck his dick a bit to calm him down while i slowly tickled his buthole with my finger. he said it felt good but weird, i then tried to force my finger in to his (as i came to find out) tight little hole. i could barely fit my finger in, he told me to stop.this to he has yet to try again, still ask him if he wants to try again, he has to say yes eventually.
     
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    A shame some of you havent been deepthroated, I always do it to the guys im with and they LOVE it. You gotta find somebody who can, can't die without trying it lol

    Biggest I did was like 9.. its not that hard if you just focus
     
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    ive never been deepthroated. my bf tried, with not so favorable results... >.>
     
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    women have a hard time getting past my big cock head :( my cock head gets big 2 1/2" long :( my cock head starts out small and just keeps getting bigger.
    I never done anal too :(
     
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    It isnt always about size. I cant deep throat regardless of how big or small a cock is. Regardless of how much i try. Anal im game to try any size.:wink:
     
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    My fear of catching Orphangyeal cancer is what makes deep-throating "less fun", no matter how big or small his cock is. Though I did it for my ex-bf and his being large did not stop me from doing it or doing it well (according to him and his wanting me back). Not likely I'll do that in the future for anyone. Even in the most exclusive of relationships, you never know what another's definition of exclusive includes.
     
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    OK - next round of information on girth training for deepthroating...

    (not ignoring the post about orpharyngeal cancer or the more common pharyngeal gonorrhea, but the threats of HPV or the clap are present in all kinds of sex hetero and homo .. I can't do anything about those)

    1) Patience and experimentation. If you've gotten your partner successfully trained on the jelly dildo (from my first post) you can move to the next step. You're going to have to work up to girth... let's make sure your partner has overcome the gag reflex... if you're going to do this, you're going to get more interest with honey than vinegar... try this experiment, (if your dick is upward curved, in a 69 position, with the guy on top) (or if your dick curves downward, lying on your back receiving oral exclusively), stimulate/encourage the bottom partner to orgasm while keeping your dick in their mouth, close to the opening of their throat. This is not a surprise exercise, the bottom partner has to know what is coming... right before their orgasm, ask them to take a deep breath and hold it during their orgasm, while you gently probe at the back of their throat with the head of your dick... the orgasm response, and oxygenated state of the lungs should override the gag reflex... obviously, over several sessions, you should try to go deeper... praise their efforts alot, even if it wasn't great... make them feel special... at some point, what you want to get to is being able to stick a few inches of your dick into their throat while your partner is cumming... by the way, you might actually like the throat contractions... don't get carried away... <GRIN> (oh and see my earlier suggestion on Snapple for saliva)

    2) Angle. Dicks are not usually a perfect cylinder or curved in a way that is best for the sucker in a front to front position. If your dick is uniquely shaped, then lie on your back and let the sucker find the position that will allow for the best attempt. You would be surprised at what a 45degree rotation of the sucker's head can do to make the "medicine go down"... <GRIN>

    3) Get an expert - even if only one time. I know I'm back to some gay advice here.. but you should probably find someone who can show you what is possible to accomplish and what position will work. You're going to be a much better teacher if you know what you are trying to accomplish.

    4) Girth and depth take work. If I were teaching a class, I would try to tell suckers to use the back of their throat and upward pressure from the back of the tongue to simulate deep throat action for thick dicks. Take that same jelly dildo, and with it only about an inch beyond the soft palet of their throat, have them practice pushing the dildo out of the entrance to their throat using only the back of their tongue... this will build up some additional tolerance to the gag reflex and simulate deeper areas of the throat. Some guys with truly thick dicks just want to have the feeling that the head of their dick is in their partner's throat.. especially for the cumshot. That's often the best compromise.If you do find a partner who can swallow your thick dick, be ready for next day soreness (on both your parts).

    5) Bite marks. Here's the hardest part (believe it or not)... if you have a really thick dick, you're either going to have to have Mick Jagger for a sex partner, or be forced to endure some scraping... Covering up the teeth with lips drawn in is the best method, but it takes some practice to be able to take the bruising/cuts/swelling on the inside of the lips. Practiced suckers do not have this problem, but novices will complain alot. Another thing I have done, which is very effective, is to get a mouth guard made for your partner; yep, complete upper and lower rubber teeth guards which can be made by your dentist - complain about teeth grinding or some other good excuse. One of my sex partners is 8"long x 9" around and that's the only way he can enjoy getting blown by me... it also helps to avoid getting scraped by the molars at the back of the mouth.

    Does this help? :)
     
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    orphangyeal cancer?

    Are there a lot of people getting cancer from deepthroating?

    This sounds more like a phobia than a serious issue.
     
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    i'm not sure about.. nice-big sized cocks. but i know for sure that whenever i see pics/vids of truly monster cocks, i'm not turned on.. i just feel sorry for them. i mean this in terms of length.. those that are 11, 12, 13+ inches. it can't be fun to never go balls deep, or get deepthroated, etc etc. poor men.
     
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    Ive never had a problem being taken balls deep with a dude, its different with the ladys though.
     
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    deep throating is about shape, not size

    the throat is already wide and will stretch a little with a big guy, the problem is the shape of the cock and the cock's head

    (and to find the big guy hahaha)
     
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