Deepthroat advice: I don't know if you want advice or just to lament your situation... LOL... , but here are some tips (from experience, I've had more than 1000 sex partners... GRIN... yep... ah, it's good to have a big dick...) (oh, and no STDs here either). I've tried to indicate gay or straight advice:
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STRAIGHT: Sadly, with your sizes, if your wife/girlfriend has never deepthroated before, it's unlikely you're going to have a good experience (teeth, upchuck, tears, arguments, etc.). I've only had one "conversion" where a woman kept trying after the first couple of failed attempts and learned to like it. It takes a submissive attitude to mentally be ready to deepthroat and swallow. If you want them to practice, get the softest, jelly dildo, about 10" (usually in purple is what I've seen), and not too thick.. VERY VERY VERY SOFT and floppy.. and set up a routine time for them to try with you controlling the depth.. it takes trust and patience... and yes, alot of gagging and tearful looks... If that's not your partner, read on...
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STRAIGHT/GAY: I checked out your pics, all very impressive and I can definitively say that
Slant, Just Hangin, Daoh and Lafitte, you are all "deepthroatable", in fact you will definitely have a great time if you get to try it and I think there are many people who could provide that service.
Unfortunately, Mantubella, you are too thick for most, and you might need to seek out someone who is older, more likely male, to handle you. You can ask me and I can recommend someone in NYC who can do it...
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STRAIGHT/GAY: Men like slipperiness in a blowjob and it's critical for getting into a throat. If you have a partner who isn't completely turned on by swallowing you whole, it's unlikely you'll get the saliva you need to get "in and down". I recommend that you have a Snapple nearby, and encourage your sucker to take a sip and swish every now and then, the saliva glands will respond well to this. Don't let your partner eat anything for 4 hours before you start this... Morning is the best time to try to get down your partner's throat, it's a scientific fact that the gag reflex is less active directly after the sleep cycle.
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GAY: Only experts are going to want you to hold their head down all the way on your dick. This is a particular fetish for guys, and (surprise) gay guys are more likely to want to do this for you than women. I have never found a woman who liked to be forced to choke or gag on a dick - they do exist, but they usually find their way into porn or into escorting. Ask your expert if they "swallow" and if so, you can probably get agressive toward the end if you warn them you are close to cumming...
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GAY: I know most of you are 100% straight, but you might want to try letting a gay guy do it one time (with straight porn playing on the TV), just to get it out of your system - c'mon you only live once, the worst thing that could happen is you have something to laugh about on this site, but the upside is... HOLY MOLY!! Yes, there are nice gay guys who are masculine, straight acting, disease free, discrete with good personalities who won't stalk you afterward. You can even tell them, you want to try it once, and not to expect more. Meet them at a motel or hotel if you must, but if you want the best porn, you'll probably have to go to their place - and tell them what kind of porn you like, yes, they'll have it or get it for you... LOL. Don't choose someone you know, it can fuck things up socially, Get a good looking guy to do it, don't settle for the first guy who says he can do it... trust me, you'll thank me later.
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STRAIGHT/GAY: it's been debated alot but the research that I trust says you can't get HIV from getting sucked (unless blood is exposed, and none of us is planning on that). I still choose to ask and require only HIVneg partners - not a perfect science, but it does eliminate some candidates, the other thing I trust is a referral from someone you know. You could wear a condom while getting sucked, but for some reason it does cause more of a gag reflex in the sucker. If you do want to wear a condom for deepthroating, don't create a large reservoir for the cum, make it snug, but do coat the
inside of the head area of the condom with lube, it will make it feel better for you. Flavoured condoms work better with women than men suckers.
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GAY: If you get an expert gay sucker, he will probably use poppers (Amyl Nitrate). I don't see this much with women, and they're not addictive or illegal (except Massachusetts, sorry Slant). It's inhaled and causes many good side effects in the sucker. I don't recommend it for you as the suckee if you're new to this. Just don't be worried about it if the sucker pulls out a small brown bottle and holds it up to his nose while he's sucking you.
And finally, if you do get/know of a good gay sucker, let me know how to contact him! GRIN And if you want to contact me further, bring it on!