Big cock newbie question

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by Paul.W, Jun 24, 2006.

  1. Paul.W

    Paul.W New Member

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    Always loved gorgeous girls and ever since getting connected to the net have been a member of sites like DDgirls and ALS scan etc. I've downloaded a fair bit of hardcore porn too and though it's not something I'm proud of admiting I now look out for and collect videos featuring very pretty girls taking very very large cocks deep and hard up the ass. It just blows me away to see a guy the size of mandingo balls deep in some young cutie knowing she's got the whole of that huge cock of his rammed up inside her ass. What's been the real shocker though has been to discover that watching so much big dick porn has left me with a very real and growing interest in monster sized cocks. Now, I'm pretty open minded and after the initial knee jerk ' What the fuck is happening to me, am I being turned into a fagot ' reaction subsided, things have settled and become much clearer. Sure, I still fancy gorgeous girls it's just that now I'm into really big cocks too and that's just the way it is now. It certainly isn't something I'm ever going to openly shout about, but the more I think about it the more certain I am that I want to take things further. I'm not physically attracted to other guys and have no Interest in having a relationship with other males beyond getting my brains pumped out by huge dicks. My dilema is that I'm only turned on by really huge cocks. If my knees don't go weak then I'm not interested at all. Now, obviously getting massive dicks pounded deep and hard up the ass can't be all that good for you, and I guess most would recommend starting smaller and working up to a monster. Unfortunately that's not going to cut it for me. I've seen plenty of girls ridden up the ass by horse hung guys and have recently watched a couple of maxxxcock movies featuring some very deep penetrations. ( I'm not all that keen on Max's stretched and over pumped cock but if we ever met up in some locker room I doubt I could stop him from having me) What I want to know is if it's possible for a virgin assed guy like me to take very deep anal penetrations from huge cocks right from the start, or do I have to somehow 'train' my ass up so to speak. I've seen dicks so big I simply wouldn't have believed it was humanly possible to jam them all the way up inside the ass of another person unless I'd actually seen it. The kind of deep hard anal fucking you see in hard core monster cock movies is what turns me on. I don't expect to end up spending a pleasant few hours enjoying another guys company, I expect to end up getting my brains fucked out. However, what worries me is ending up with such a huge guy inside me that I actually find myself getting fucked to death. Are there guys out there just too big to handle, or will my ass just stretch to accomodate even the biggest guys.
    Any thoughts appreciated. PW
     
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    I can't imagine you would succeed in taking a monster cock up your virgin ass the first time - not without extreme pain, bleeding and possible visit to the hospital.

    The sphincter is a muscle like any other. You can exercise it to stretch out. Try a dildo or vegetable (zucchini or cucumbers). In other words, if you want to take a monster cock up your ass, start with something small and work up to it and you should have no significant problems, no extreme pain, no bleeding and no hospitals when the time comes to actually take a real live 'big one'.
     
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    Hey there Luke. Thanks for the reply. I've just ordered myself a big fat dildo to er... stretch my self out abit as it were, and make sure I'm ready to take some serious girth. However, it's the thought of very deep anal penetrations by 10 or 12 inch plus cocks that really turns me on. Now, obviously real life is never quite going to match up to my fantasies, but is it realistic to think I could ever really take these huge guys balls deep. Or is the only way I can truely find out how many inches I can take by getting someone like Max Delong to jam their cock up inside me and just see what happens. It's just that before I finally give it up to a ' Big One ' I'd like a bit of feed back ( positive or negative ) from other guys who've already had a monster dick deep deep inside them. Sure, I want to take a good hard pounding and get myself covered in gallons of thick steaming sperm, but I don't want to be permanently damaged for life either. So any thoughts or advice from other guys about taking it really deep would be much appreciated. Thanks. P.W
     
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    Yea.... I'm tryng to get my girlfriend up for anal, and ive never done it, but even i know you can't take a big cock in a virgin ass without fucking some shit up. But If blowing an O-ring out is good for ya, go for it.
     
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    I'm a gay man who just happened to end up in a long relationship with a rather sexually aggressive top with a bone of 10" and as big around as a persons wrist. I could only get the head in my mouth for pete's sake. I had never seen anything quite like it. Anyway - All I can say is that in the beginning it was difficult to take. However, it was so erotic to me and I was so determined to take him ball deep that I had to be willing to let him "break me in". ie: insert his head in my ass gently, and once the head was in he would thrust full stroke ball deep. Guaranteed to make a person's eyes water I assure you (and this is after you get used to it). TRUST ME...you have to take some time at first to get your body used to that kind of beating. Eventually though, you will be able to do it, and YES, it's an incredible feeling once you're able to take a dick like that. The orgasms will blow your mind!
    Remember...It takes a real man to get fucked in the ass by a dick of that size.
     
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    I love to fuck a tight ass with my big dong.
    I use a TON of lube and work my digits into that whole before I stretch it with my johnson.
    I can't imagine it feels good to the receiver but I have been told by some who can take it that they LOVE it.
    Jake
     
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    penis well taken ... i mean point.
     
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    I can't imagine it feels good to the receiver but I have been told by some who can take it that they LOVE it.
    Jake[/quote]

    It was extremely pleasureable due to the fact that it made him so happy that I could take it in what ever way he was in the mood to give it. Apparently, other people in the past couldn't. He used to go out of town for months at a time on business and would ask me not to use any dildo's or anything while he was gone. He especially enjoyed coming home and breaking me in when nothing had been in there in 2-3 months and I was really tight. I'd call on God, would walk funny for a few days and have rug burns from hell, but it was so intense that I loved it every time he drilled me.
     
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    Thanks for the replies !!!
    I'm pretty sure having a 10 or 12 inch plus dick rammed balls deep up your ass can't be all that good for you. However huge cocks just make me go weak at the knees. Like I've said it's not a caring sharing experience that I'm looking for. The shock turn on for me has been discovering that there are guys out there with dicks so big they could actually have me. The thought of taking another mans huge hard cock right up to the hilt and feeling the end of his dick pounding away deep deep inside me has quickly become my ultimate nightmare fantasy. Now I never thought it was going to be an easy or comfortable journey but judging from your replies I guess I'm in for a rougher ride than I thought. How do the seemingly endless numbers of girls I've seen being hammered up the ass by the likes of Lex or Mandingo handle it?. I've also recently started watching all male movies featuring guys like the insanely over pumped Max Delong penetrating other guys to eye watering depths, so I know that taking a Big One really deep is possible. Psychologically I don't know if I'll end up changed in any way once I've been fucked by another guy, but ideally I'd like to carry on my life as it is, make contact with a couple of genuine monster sized guys, meet up a couple of times a year and get my brains pumped out, before returning to the everyday routine of work and trying to get into pretty girls pants. Are there any guys out there enjoying this kind of life. The thought of having monster dicked guys ride me deep and hard up the ass is a huge turn on, but I'm sure not keen on the idea of having my insides permanently wrecked. Any further bits of advice or words of wisdom from any guys who've already been had by a monster would be
    much appreciated . Thanks . PW
     
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    Oh...for God's sakes...you aren't gonna be wrecked. Just find a guy you trust and can get into it with. Take your time and let him fuck you in the ass. You don't have to marry him or anything, and don't worry about labels and crap. There's not a damn thing wrong with having "just sex" with a man and enjoying yourself. The only thing that might change in your life is it just might open your eyes to something you might really get off on - that you thought was simply too taboo and for some reason, shouldn't be experienced. I don't have anal sex only because the visual in my head is hot. I do it because it freaking feels GREAT. I see no reason to deny myself of such pleasure. (not to mention masturbation material for years to come.)
    Take your time.
    Be carefull.
    Don't go out and find some big dicked one night trick. You won't enjoy it. Do it with someone you trust.
    Once again...TAKE YOUR TIME

    There has to be someone on this site that would treat you very well and be understanding of your limits and concerns.

    I guess I'm just pro-anal. Hope I didn't offend you or anyone else.
     
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    I have been a bottom from the beginning of my sexual life. Now at the age of 41, I am a total depth guy. It take lots of time and patients when going deep. Just enjoy the experience. If your not having any fun, then it will not be satisfying to you at all. Nice to know that you bought your selfs a dildo to "stretch". I just hope it's not to big for your first time.....discription and actual sizes can be very different.

    Just be carefull...go slow, breath deep.....and exhale.
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  12. Paul.W

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    Hey phantom thanks for the reply. I never thought I'd end up getting involved in all male sex so finding out that huge cocks can exert so much of an influence over me has taken some getting used to. I think I'm pretty open minded, but even so to find myself seriously considering getting fucked by very big dicked guys is a major deal for me. The social stigma aspect of it still worries me, but I have to admit is also part of the turn on. However, the more I think about it the more certain I become that I want to take my interest in Big Cocks further. You're right, I should experience the things in life I want, not what is expected of me by others. If the fantasy doesn't live up to the reality at least I can chaulk it up to experience and move on, better that than forever drooling over the huge dicks in movies and always wondering what if. I sure will take my time, be carefull and do my research before I let any guy plough me. My intention is to take it real slow and cautious to start with, then again I guess it will probably take a fair while to make the right ' hung ' contacts. Anyway, Thanks to you all for the replies . PW
     
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    Paul, I did forget to mention one thing...or several - If your mind isn't into, or turned on by a specific sexual situation, your body won't be either. I fantasize about this exact scenerio, but if I'm not absolutely comfortable with the top (no matter what his cock size) it just isn't gonna happen. I'm sure I make all of this sound easy, however, I'm also not straight and genuinely find men beautiful. You may not see things this way. If/when you find a suitable candidate for this who is respectful of what you do, and do not want to experience (ie: a friends with benefits deal) you will be alright. Don't be afraid to make it clear to the person that you don't want any after effects suggestive of a gay lifestyle. You will both have to be on the same page. Once this occurs and your mind is sexually free you should enjoy the experience. If you have any doubts or are uneasy with someone, then wait until you feel the time (and top) are right FOR YOU.
    As far as stigma goes, again it boils down to trust and privacy. No one needs to know what you do in the bedroom. Your top must respect this. If not...then move on. When you find the right "friend" then none of that will be an issue. In fact, it will just make you closer and better friends.
    The dildo practice is a good idea. Obviously a real man with some muscle behind the pumping will feel the best, but you'll still get the idea. Cleaning yourself out with an enema might also be helpfull. Some guys need to do this, other don't. It depends entirely on the individual. Good sex has much to do with what's going on in your mind; doesn't sound like you'll have a problem there. In your case, finding a good man that you can be completely comfortable with entering your body might be tricky. Listening to your mind and body is the key, and don't let anyone push you into something you're not 100% sure you are ready for. Hope this helps and I wish you the best.
     
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