Big Cock Psychology

[johnnybigbeast]

I'm fascinated by the whole big cock thing both the physical and mental side of it. Having never experienced a big cock (being straight) it is probably easy to imagine that physically it makes a big difference, but I'm wondering about the mentality. For me, although I'm on the smaller end of the big scale (7" x 5.75") I find it very empowering to have a larger than average cock. I also find that all the women I;ve had who have "enjoyed" my size prefer rough and aggressive sex, and enjoy the pain of being fucked hard and deep even though it hurts them. This makes me wonder if the big cock thing for a woman (or a gay man) is about power and a symbol of the aggressive male. This thought I find a big turn on, and I also like it when women are honest and come straight out and say they prefer 'em big (although I'd probably think differently if I only had 5" !!)

I'm interested in the opinions of all members : men/women gay or straight. What is about the big cock ? Is it about power and male virility? Or is it that is just feels damn good !!

 

[B_Cegro27]

For me, hugely hung guys "seem" more masculine, and masculinity in a guy is an ENORMOUS turn on for me...guys with huge cocks definitely look it. It makes me want to do anything to please him. If he wants to fuck me hard, my ass his to own, like its his right. My desire to be fucked hard is a strong one, even if it hurts me, the pain doesn't compare to the overwhelming joy of having a big fat cock pumping in and out of me. I'm sure to be sore afterwards, but importantly, I'll be happy!

One look at a huge engorged cock on a hot guy and I have to keep myself from begging him to fuck me. It's like I don't have control over my feelings, the constant hunger and craving just takes over and I can't do anything else until I get it satisfied in the form of a good thorough fucking from a hugely hung man. It's scary at times, that something like that can hold so much power over me. But at the same time, it's a feeling I love and hope to never loose.

 

[contortionist]

When I 'casually' mentioned to 2 ex g/fs that a friend of mine at school was over 10'' they both literally gasped and visibly flushed. It was only a couple of inches longer than mine but somehow the thought of it turned them on. On the plus side it led to great sex!

 

[Cassius]

Everything you guys say on this subject is true. I was straight until quite recently (or thought I was) but I was always incredibly turned on when someone said to me that 'that guy over there going out with x, he is HUGE'. It really got me right in the pit of the stomach and I had a mate who I know was very similar. When we were at a party and a guy with a huge cock got it out he went very quiet and turned on and I just knew he was feeling what I did. There's certainly a pyschology to big cock, no doubt about that.

 

[Small Hound]

There is a lot to be said about the big cock when it comes to the mental excitement of both women and men,

I am about 5.5" and have always felt insecure about myself as I have had comments about my size.

The trurth is, I have made love to women who have told me that I make them feel better than there regular partners who are 3 to 4 inches larger than me. They have told me I am the best lover they ever had.

On the gay side, the same. I never did anyting but BJ's. and that was when I was 17 years old, but even then, my buddy was 9 plus " and I was 5.5". He told me I was the best he had and he was around town a lot.

However in both or all of these relationships... when there was talk of a large penis, with other people, it seemed that size was the most important factor... how ever, with me they told me I was the best.

I had / have a sexual hang up over this yet the same people come back to me for what they say is "the best sex" ever.

Go figure.

 

[Tele at Ten]

It's really all about the Symbolic.

The phallus is representative of masculinity and all that it entails.

Just like breasts are the symbol of femininity, nurturing etc.

I believe that a man with a 2 inch penis can satisfy a woman as well as one with 10 inches if (and this is a BIG if) the woman does not have a fascination with a big dick. It's all in the mind. If she is 'turned on' by the thought of a big dick then of course that is going to please her more. (And I think our society does have a somewhat unhealthy fascination with big dicks.)

That said:

A huge penis symbolizes BIGGER masculinity, virility, sex appeal and power.

A man's masculinity has nothing to do with how big his cock is.

What's strangely interesting is a lot of men I have known who have huge penises are really lacking in masculinity and are rather wimpy to me. I have met men who are short guys and have just average endowment and they are some of the most 'go getter' masculine type men I have ever met.

So IMO its the Symbolism of a big dick that gets people.

 

[meatpackingbubba]

Cegro, you have a good attitude and are right on. I've always liked guys that know what they need and are honest about admiting it. And wanting to worship a big fat phallus is natural for many men and women.

 

[B_Cegro27]

Cegro, you have a good attitude and are right on. I've always liked guys that know what they need and are honest about admiting it. And wanting to worship a big fat phallus is natural for many men and women.

Correct. It's definitely not hard for me to admit, in fact I can't imagine not getting that need of mine met. It's an addiction that I don't EVER want to get over. :smile:

 

[Sergeant_Torpedo]

The ancient world literally did worship large phalluses. A large penis is a powerful image, evoking fertility, virility, power, and mut be deeply embedded in the human mind.

Having a large penis is empowering: it gives confidence if nothing else. That str8 guys can admire cocks is natural. It is society which labels it a gay thing. It isn't; it is the human condition.

 

[roosevelt]

Oddly enough, the Greeks loved the appearance of a large penis, but thought that the men who posessed them where unreliable and not to be trusted.

 

[avg_joe]

I always imagine what if a 10" X 6" big cock guy would fuck a cute virgin Asian girl with very tight pussy. :biggrin1:

 

[Swordman]

Oddly enough, the Greeks loved the appearance of a large penis, but thought that the men who posessed them where unreliable and not to be trusted.

Scurrilous rumors spread by fellow Greeks with "lesser" endowment, and that Roman prick Smallus Diccus, when he visited Agamemnon in Mycenae....

Homer

 

[WildHoney]

For me, It's a mental thing mostly. I am a tall woman with an abundant sexual appetite, I prefer men who 'appear" to be very MANLY men.

Big tall guys, (muscular bodies help ) and a whopping big cock! Just that visual is so appealing to me.

Actual sex with hung men is just like sex with average men, can be good , can be bad. However the visual is never bad.

:smile:
Honey

 

[OmahaBeef]

For me, It's a mental thing mostly. I am a tall woman with an abundant sexual appetite, I prefer men who 'appear" to be very MANLY men.

Big tall guys, (muscular bodies help ) and a whopping big cock! Just that visual is so appealing to me.


:smile:
Honey

:fing02::headbang::biggthumpup2::beerchug2:


...OB

 

[Lex]

... I prefer men who 'appear" to be very MANLY men.

Big tall guys, (muscular bodies help ) ...Just that visual is so appealing to me.

You and me both babe. You and me both.

OmahaBeef is a fucking STUD.

Actual sex with hung men is just like sex with average men, can be good , can be bad. However the visual is never bad.

:smile:
Honey

This bears repeating. Cock size has very little to do with overall the sexual exeprience.

 

[OmahaBeef]

You and me both babe. You and me both.

OmahaBeef is a fucking STUD.



This bears repeating. Cock size has very little to do with overall the sexual exeprience.

Only second to you my friend!:wink:

....OB

 

[B_Hung Muscle]

I've always liked guys that know what they need and are honest about admiting it. And wanting to worship a big fat phallus is natural for many men and women.

Well, now that you brought it up, I definitely want to worship your big fat phallus.

 

[MR C]

The Size you've quoted there my friend is not small. Im pretty sure the REAL Average penis size is 5 inches. The angle you look at your cock also makes it look smaller than it actually is. I had a groupie a lil while back, and a friend and i were both recieving blow jobs from this particular lady, and i looked as his cock and thought...hmm yours is actually bigger than mine, and he said to me that mine looks bigger than his. i never tell a woman whats in my pants unless she asks, i still wont try and brag and say ive got a huge cock, i'll just whip it out when the times right so she can see :smile:

I'm fascinated by the whole big cock thing both the physical and mental side of it. Having never experienced a big cock (being straight) it is probably easy to imagine that physically it makes a big difference, but I'm wondering about the mentality. For me, although I'm on the smaller end of the big scale (7" x 5.75") I find it very empowering to have a larger than average cock. I also find that all the women I;ve had who have "enjoyed" my size prefer rough and aggressive sex, and enjoy the pain of being fucked hard and deep even though it hurts them. This makes me wonder if the big cock thing for a woman (or a gay man) is about power and a symbol of the aggressive male. This thought I find a big turn on, and I also like it when women are honest and come straight out and say they prefer 'em big (although I'd probably think differently if I only had 5" !!)

I'm interested in the opinions of all members : men/women gay or straight. What is about the big cock ? Is it about power and male virility? Or is it that is just feels damn good !!

 

[D_Martin van Burden]

I've been considering myself why large dicks are so attractive, almost globally. Man or woman, gay or straight, I think people have this almost gut-level kind of attraction for them -- perhaps because they're symbols of masculinity, representative of goodness knows what virile, manly, powerful, strong, what have you. They get and hold attention; they shock, they inspire, they arouse. There's a whole sort of illicit mystique surrounding them; the reality of the rare, (once you stop getting close-ups and camera tricks in porn).

I'm not quite sure yet. I think it's an object of desire -- desiring to what or to have, what you can get with it and command by it.

 

[Max]

If by 'big cock psychology' we mean the reactions they often inspire, I am in agreement. But if we are talking about the psychology of the owners of same I am not.

One of the toughest things I've ever had to deal with were the suggestions from friends, or just from people who saw me in locker rooms etc that I should be spreading my talents around half the local female population on a daily basis, that I should advertise my assets, walk the walk etc, and that I should adopt some sort of big cock and big balled attitude (in other words change my personality and my life style to suit my genitals). There was the implied criticism that I was wasting my talents by not living like that.

Two things wrong with it. First and more important it would be pathetic to allow this part of my body to dictate the sort of man I am. Second, it can be very frustrating indeed when people say to you "lend me that for a night, and I'll show you what I can do with it" or similar when you know, of course, that sex with an overlarge penis isn't quite as simple as that.

This sort of issue is what brought me to lpsg (or its predecessor) ... way back.