Big cock Sex problem :(

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Ello' Everyone.

I Measure a size of about 7 1/2 and 6 1/2 around. The circumference of my head is a few centimeters bigger then the shaft.

First issue is sex. I always have a lot of trouble penetrating (because the women are too small or something) and when i finally do it HURTS LIKE A BITCH!!

So painful i can not even begin to thrust. So i pull out. :mad:

the reason for this is im not circumcised and when i pull the skin back to let the head out it feels like its going to rip the skin to pieces.

And from years of pulling skin back it never stretched our or adjusted and i don't know what to do.

does anyone have a solution to the pain problem? don't other guys feel the pain when they pull their skin back? i mean the foreskin has like less then a quarter inch opening for a head thats an inch and half to 2 inches in width and 6 inches around.

wtf am i (we) supposed to do? :confused:


Oh i forgot to mention NOT letting the head out is not an option..because when i try penetration the force of me pushing just pulls the skin back.

WHICH HURTS SO MUCH!!!
 

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i'm not a guy and so i have no idea but i just wanted to say i'm sorry you experience pain that way - doesn't sound right to me. I've never heard of that before. Have you asked your physician? Hope you figure it out so you can really enjoy some good sex.
 

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No problems when i do it with a softy or even half a softy. but full erections just hurt like mother fuckers.

thanks for the support btw. i appreciate it
 

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It sounds like you have phimosis. See your Doctor.

What happens if you pull your foreskin back before you get an erection?
im uncut tho and if i do that it does hurt so bad when i get hard
until i get to big and the skin go back on the head.

and shaftman im kinda in the same situation uncut and 6 around:frown1: good luck getting cut
 

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go to the doctor... unless you want to suffer sexless life.

And if there is a problem get it fix !
 

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I had the same "problem" I grew up in the mid west in the 70's every woman I was ever with I was the only uncut guy they had ever had. The few pornos I ever saw all the guys were cut, it was before the age of the internet so I had no idea that when I got hard the foreskin was supposed to be able to retract.

It never hurt the way you say from just being hard but sex with a woman if she was at all tight would result in foreskin tearing tearing issues and it could become painful enough to have to stop before I came. even at 18 going back for seconds was never in the cards. Over the years I would look for women that I figured would be bigger down there, older divorced, had kids etc. the result of that too often was they would become stretched and loose to the point that it wasn't all that pleasurable either.

I was always going to get cut to "cure the problem" but being a typical guy I put it off. at about age 40 the condition progressed to the point that even soft I could not get it to retract anymore so I got it done.

I do not regret it in the least and wish I had done it 20 years earlier. From as soon as I was all healed up the sex has been amamzing. Ironically a woman that I met just before the surgery was the first one I had sex with after, she had been one of those that met my prior "criteria" but as I found out was amazingly tight and shallow, it was the best sex I had ever had in my life, seconds and thirds that night, she thought I was such a stud!

Every GF since has been really tight and I have loved the feeling of NOT being able to "slide right in"

There are a lot of guys on here that are just so sure that being cut is the worst thing in the world. Well all they know is there perspective, 99% of men are either uncut or have been cut all lives, practically speaking, there are very few that have experienced both sides of the fence.

I know that woman seem to be a whole lot more eager to suck my dick since too.

Others are going to talk about all these "stretching methods" Just get cut and enjoy knowing that the only stretching you will have to worry about doing is to her!!
 

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Agreed-
Like wisdom teeth, the foreskin is a vestigial remnant that serves no real function.

2,000 years ago, the majority of people had no problem with their wisdom teeth... they came in around age 20...

But evolution marches on... to the point where, today, people still get wisdom teeth, but most of them no longer have room in their jaw bones for the teeth... they get impacted, or cause problems with neighboring teeth and so we have them removed...

Foreskins are like that in that genetic drift is resulting in a percentage of the population having foreskins that actually cause difficulty.

In the distant past, people with real problems with their foreskin would have a reproductive disadvantage and those genes would not be passed on as much...

But with surgical solutions available, there is no reason why such a condition need be allowed to impact one's life and so the genes persist and become more prevalent over time.

( like narrow hips on women- used to be women with narrow hips died in childbirth- cesarean sections eliminated that evolutionary pressure... and today women often have narrow hips..there is no selection pressure eliminating those genes...)

It may be scary... but your best option would probably be circumcision.

The few guys I know who had it done as adults...who know both sides of the issue, all say that sexual sensation is no worse or much better than before they got cut.

And most women seem to prefer the look and smell of the cut version... ( the guys I know got circumcisions BECAUSE of their women's preferences... not phimosis.)
 

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The cut version can also stink if you don't wash it. I'm sure there is a population of women who prefer the aesthetics of a cut wiener. Most women probably don't care.
 

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a friend (he's about mid 20s) had this problem. He finally got cut. wished he had done when he hit puberty. says sex now is amazing.

get cut, uncomfortable for a week or 2. long term gain.
 

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Sometimes a tight foreskin will eventually stretch and pull back OK. But yours hasn't and won't. Only one answer therefore: the quick snip. Don't delay.
 

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To all: The O/P stated he doesn't want to be cut. Please respect his wishes.

shaftman800,

If you do have "phimosis" [a diagnosis that a only physician should determine], then you have options other than circumcision.

  • Stretching routines, without prescription steroids.
  • Stretching routines, using prescription steroids.
  • Preputioplasty: a minor surgery that retains the foreskin and frenulum.
If the pain is present when flaccid then you need to see a physician, period. If the pain is present only when hard, you could try stretching routines [which are done when flaccid] and see how that goes.

For info about stretching routines see: How should phimosis be treated?
 

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Oy... not the prepucssies again...


he asked for advice...

He got advice...

From people with SIMILAR problems. Who had a happy result.

No one is "disrespecting" his wishes... no one is MAKING him get cut.

He is getting feedback from people who have walked a trail you haven't the slightest idea of.

He can now proceed to make an INFORMED decision on his own.



I know you would prefer he only had YOUR disinformation to guide him...but, hey... that's the problem with the fact that you don't control reality.
 
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Ello' Everyone.

I Measure a size of about 7 1/2 and 6 1/2 around. The circumference of my head is a few centimeters bigger then the shaft.

First issue is sex. I always have a lot of trouble penetrating (because the women are too small or something) and when i finally do it HURTS LIKE A BITCH!!

So painful i can not even begin to thrust. So i pull out. :mad:

the reason for this is im not circumcised and when i pull the skin back to let the head out it feels like its going to rip the skin to pieces.

And from years of pulling skin back it never stretched our or adjusted and i don't know what to do.

does anyone have a solution to the pain problem? don't other guys feel the pain when they pull their skin back? i mean the foreskin has like less then a quarter inch opening for a head thats an inch and half to 2 inches in width and 6 inches around.

wtf am i (we) supposed to do? :confused:


Oh i forgot to mention NOT letting the head out is not an option..because when i try penetration the force of me pushing just pulls the skin back.

WHICH HURTS SO MUCH!!!



Mate, obviously your foreskin is too small for your cock.My mate had a similar problem, it has nothing to do with the size of your penis but i guess that would make it so much worse.
Get cut seeing as your not reaping the many benifits of being uncut atm.
Good luck with you problem my friend.