Big cock was the biggest jerk, average cock was the best lover!

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I hate to admit it, but most guys who are well-endowed are jerks. However, I keep returning for more. *blush*
 

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Some of you will find this hard to believe, but there are plenty of guys who love having their size appreciated. That's one of the many things I look for in a lover and not everyone is seeking a full-time relationship. If you feel devalued by it, don't participate. I'm not offended if a guy likes my boobs and I'd much rather he be honest with me about his intentions than to act like he's falling in love with me and fuck with my head. To each his own.

I've had remarkable good results in finding attractive, intelligent AND hung guys who are fine with a fwb relationship. I'd never give an asshole a call-back.
 

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Madame Zora- I agree with liking the compliments, but for me its got to be after the fact, not some girl that just heard about me.

For example, I loved it when the girl I lost my virginity with said afterwards "I put my hand on it and didn't think it would fit inside me" (she wasn't a virgin, but I was)

But, this other girl later in life that I always had an eye on was talking to me one night and said "I'd have sex with any guy I found attractive that had a decent package". In the context of the conversation, that was my green light and I never made a move. (she knew a little about me from other girls)

I like it when a girl I'm dating compliments my size, but I hate it when a girl that has never been with me makes a comment about wanting to sleep with me because of my penis. Sure it's kind of flattering and ego boosting but its also very shallow of the girl, and shallow women do not turn me on.

I guess what it boils down to for me is if it's a compliment from her being pleasantly suprised, its flattering. If its a comment about wanting to sleep with me for the first time because of it its a turn off.
 

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I've had sex with people that just wanted sex, I'm sure many of them just wanted sex with me because of some purely shallow reason. I enjoyed it, but I also made sure they enjoyed it.

I do admit that I didn't start out all gentle and cuddly with them. The sex started out with sex, not loving.
 
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for the person freaking out (kid brown) about the dude "causing pain" to the women...



i think what he meant was, he doesn't mean he smacks them around and stuff, he just means... if they kidna "hurt" becuase of his size, he's not gonna be like "ohh sorry baby" he's gonna be like "well you wanted my big dick, so here it is..." i think yuo are taking it to extremes that werent intended by him, but whatever. don't be so quick to judge and label either.
 

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hardstud said:
I'm the same way. If a chick wants me just because I'm hung I'll fuck her hard and make sure she feels what my cock can do. Otherwise I'll be more loving and tender.

After thinking about this for a minute and relating it to my own experience, I kinda agree. If I'm fucking a guy who really wants to be plowed -- and it's some type of one-off/trick/anonymous/casual sex thing, I have been known to really slam away. Usually, I don't get off on being the top piston, but if the bottom really craves it, I can supply the jackhammer.
 

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Judging from the responses to this thread, horribleperson and hardstud also sound like real jerks, sorry to say.

If a girl craving your big cock offends you so bad, why don't you just tell her off? Deliberately inflicting pain on others is so not kosher.

:mad:
 

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mr horriblexson and hardstrud:
maybe girls say that they want you for your size just because size is the only thing you got to offer.
Well it's quite few i would say; usually my partners discover my size at a second stage and it's like a benefit that is added to me, my whole body, personality, culture and friendshipness.
Read some books, travel, interact more with people and maybe you will get some points.
Last advice: winter is coming dress up otherwise you'll get sick hanging around nude.
 

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horribleperson said:
when girls only want to have sex with me because of the size of my penis i tend to be a jerk. also when having sex with her i dont go slow. i show her what kind of pain i can inflect. now that is what you get for thinking of me as somekind of freak show. so next time you see a hung guy dont talk about his cock talk about how hot he looks.

mmmm thats hawt!
 

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Sorry but I just have to say it. 90% of guys are like this. Its a fact of life, its the whole male ego, having a large dick just makes it worse.