Big cocked guys expected to top?

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hey guys, first time poster here.

do you guys find that because of the size of your cock, you're expected or begged to top the other guy?

the last few times i've gone home/hooked up with a guy (most of them who considered themselves total tops), they've totally changed the game plan. it's not that i mind topping, but there are just some times when i need to get fucked.

what else have you guys found?
 

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I don't know how common it is, but I've been in that situation one time or another. Both being asked to top, or asking someone to top me.
 

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i usually am the one on top...which i usually preferr but I do love a good challenge. :) But yah, Lots of so called total tops change their tune and want to try bottom when the clothes come off. *also, it seems lots of very small guys tend to wanna be total top* whats up with that!
 

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Some tops I have met have turned bottom with me...but yes they usually expect me to top.
 

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I heard an adage years ago from a gay friend..."bigger the dick, bigger the bottom"

I think for me, its all about the chemistry, but gotta tell ya...bigger the dick the bigger the challenge and its nice to lay back once in awhile and GET plowed as opposed to doing the plowing...
 

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God yes... constantly. I mean I'm versatile anyway, so it's not a "real" issue... but similar to what one of the other posters stated, I would like it to be "my turn" to bottom every so often too - but it's rare...


hey guys, first time poster here.

do you guys find that because of the size of your cock, you're expected or begged to top the other guy?

the last few times i've gone home/hooked up with a guy (most of them who considered themselves total tops), they've totally changed the game plan. it's not that i mind topping, but there are just some times when i need to get fucked.

what else have you guys found?
 

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but I find a lot of women feel more submissive to me then they do other men
I should say I HEAR that as I am not there when they have sex with men who are not me
 

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I know I love to bottom for a big guy cuz it's kinda like climbing Mt Everest!!!! Wanna say "I did that!" LOL

Seriously, I usually find big guys do get stuck into the 'top' mold quite early, but most the ones I know are very happy if I say I wanna fuck them. The only problem is the girth cuz they aren't used to taking it and are sorta out of practice.

They come around eventually.
 

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I'm almost exclusively a bottom. When I was younger and single I frequently found "tops" asking to be fucked once the clothes came off. I didn't mind it too much. (Although now it wouldn't be an option since my dick doesn't stay hard enough to penetrate anymore). I think the whole top/bottom thing being associated with masculine/feminine is a load of crap but many still subscribe to it. I think there are tons of gay men that like to get fucked but feel the need to label themselves as tops for fear of being considered feminine.
 

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well, what a waste if a guy has a really big one and then wants to bottom...

havent encountered that so often, but it is always a laugh when one says "Im always top, but I dont know why, just with you I want to try bottom!" sure...

met on the other hand often smaller guys who want to top me, who is over 6 ft, which I find a bit strange, even if they have a big one it feels a bit strange when someone smaller is on top of you... I need a big strong man on top of me, if the other one is smaller Im top...
 

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hey guys, first time poster here.

do you guys find that because of the size of your cock, you're expected or begged to top the other guy?

the last few times i've gone home/hooked up with a guy (most of them who considered themselves total tops), they've totally changed the game plan. it's not that i mind topping, but there are just some times when i need to get fucked.

what else have you guys found?
yes; and I usually oblige him/them. :wink:
 

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i am average and like to top men with large cocks or bottom myself. I find the best thing about being with a larger man is giving head anyway.

Also bottoming is very mood dependant.
 

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hey guys, first time poster here.

do you guys find that because of the size of your cock, you're expected or begged to top the other guy?

the last few times i've gone home/hooked up with a guy (most of them who considered themselves total tops), they've totally changed the game plan. it's not that i mind topping, but there are just some times when i need to get fucked.

what else have you guys found?

I met a guy in the hot tub at a gay hotel last week. He got in the tub and sat down next to me and started playing with my dick and said " I assume your a top". I wasn't too interested at the time and told him I was a bottom (which isn't true). He replied "What a waste" and got out of the tub and walked away.