Me too.
Most of the time, when guys see my cock - like at a bathhouse, they want me to poke em with it, but I'm pretty much never into it. GETTING fucked is a fave, but I'm just not much a top.
Not that I can't appreciate a beautiful ass (like mine, hehe). Maybe one time in a hundred, if the guy insists on versatility and has a silky smooth bubble butt, I'll find the willingness to fuck, but when I do, more often than not, I'm turned off by his lack of skill, so I have to switch again, sit back down on his cock, and show him how it's done.