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Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by D_Meneage Saltass, Dec 9, 2009.
Thoughts on a guy with a big penis but a quick trigger?
Describes me to a T, I'm afraid
hmmmm...maybe get a fleshjack endurance trainer... It should help you to be able to last longer.*IN THEORY* OR try the lydocane sprays/creams on your dick to desensatize it for a bit.
Very cool. Thanks. Just checked out the site and might give it a try. I think, though, that'll I'll stay away from THIS product that they sell: Stroke-O-Meter
wow. that is officially my new nightmare.
Women need that or want that long time effect. Men, well, I tell them in no uncertain terms, that I am doing this due to me wanting to, so last one second or one hour..cum when you want, after all, it is about his pleasure, which you derive pleasure from.
very thoughtful on both accounts. thanks for the answer.
It happens with a lot of big guys especially when young .
To help this you should search the threads for JELQING and KEGEL exercises, do these for a month or longer and I bet you will see a big difference in your speedy trigger !!!
Good luck and keep us informed man and WHERE are pics of the Quick trigger BIG PENIS ? :tongue::tongue::tongue:
haha, i might get the nerve up soon to post pics of said Quick trigger BIG PENIS. everything pretty secure? always nervous about that.
hmmm, do you think then that there's a connection between size and stamina?
Does edging while masturbating help? I'm not sure. Anyway, if you have some down time, put on your favorite porn and handle your dick like you usually would. When you get close to ejaculating, stop what you're doing.
You can squeeze your dick at the base or closer to the head. You could close your eyes and try visualizing some non-erotic material to reduce the subsiding. You could flex and tense up your PC muscle, similar to stopping urine in mid-stream. In any event, do what you have to do to ease the tension of ejaculation and then re-start again, working your way up gradually to climax and then relaxing. I found that in my own sex life, edging grants me a little extra control, and it's a good way to get to know your own body.
thanks for the tips. yeah, it's something i work on and definitely have gotten a lot better, but i DO sort of have the feeling that it's also partially just the way i'm wired. don't know if i'll ever be the kind of guy who can thrust away without having to stop pretty often.
I feel your pain man. I'm getting better myself, but am by no means of pornstar quality haha.
Personally, I find it to be kind of an emotional thing that is the deciding factor on when the trigger is pulled. If I'm not into it or if I'm distracted, I can fuck forever. Like, hours. As soon as I 'tune in' to what's going on - especially if the girl is really enjoying herself - I'm done in only a few minutes.
I hear ya. For me, whenever I've been with someone new, it's literally been a matter of seconds. Now, in a relationship, I can sometimes do better, but like i said, i have to do a lot of starting and stopping. Sometimes my gf teases me about it in a sweet way, which i actually kinda enjoy. But sometimes it's just frustrating.
Dunno if edging helps or not but I could see where it might ! I am the complete opposite of the spectrum , even though they dont say it most of my partners I know are thinking for fucks sake would you CUM already LOL. I can climax by fukin someone but I have to do it at such a speed that usually makes them tell me enough already, I can climax while getting a BJ if the dude can handle my dick rough and suck hard and deep . Not sure why but unless I am using my own 2 hands to get me off my whole cock has to feel stimulation for me to cum .
The exercise that DEE mentioned is also the kegel exercises. Eurologists recommend them to their patients today with enlarged prostates. Start off slowly and do simple squeeze and release and do like 100 (20X5) a day then work your way up to where you can hold the muslce squeeze for 5 seconds then release .
They are amazing exercises. if you have ever cut off your urine while pissing it's the same thing . The more you do the kegels the stronger you muscles will become .