i am a petite asian girl and my bf is pretty big physically. he is also big down there 8 inches long and 5.75 inches in girth. sometimes after we have sex, i dunno if its 1. im not wet enough? 2. not good position i feel like there is a tear in my perivaginal area. like the area right behind my vagina before my a*us. do u guys ever get that? i never put a mirror under there to look at it but when i feel it with my hand when i take a bath the skin feels a little raw. sometimes my a** hols feels stretched too even tho we never have anal. is that normal too? almost like... make me afraid to go to number 2 when i feel like my a**hole has just been stretched. sorry lots of questions first time here!