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i wouldnt worry, most of the men on here over exaggerate their own penis. about 80% of the men that message me claiming their dick is sooooo big, when its only 7 -8 inches. They need to get over themselves, 10 inches is big! 7 - 8 is nothing to get all high and mighty about

Sorry but you have no idea. 7-8" is pretty frigging huge. 10" is for dreamers generally.



...back on topic, no i dont think bigger is better generally, far too much hassle sometimes.
 

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A guy with large endowment has an advantage in the sexual arena. Don't even try to tell me otherwise. I am not an expert or anything but having worked for two decades in the cube area inhabited by women this has long, long, long ago been established as fact from what I hear as the "safe guy" to talk to and around.

A guy with a sincere desire to listen to his gf (or date) tell him about her thoughts and dreams has an advantage in the relationship arena. My proof from same as above.

It goes on and on and on all leading to the truth that a man should lead with his strenths and have safeguards for his weaknesses. If done right and you are not blessed with everything you can have it all... got a big dick but not so hot with the relationship stuff then make it a point to have a date night in which you just ask questions and listen... are the soft and cudly type guy normally endowed yet really like erotic and wild sex then show her the love and affection that comes natural and in the bedroom use your tongue like you have not fed in two weeks (and have a Jeff Stryker size toy).

No need to envy what others have that you don't. Instead, focus on what you got that is good and make it great.
 

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A guy with large endowment has an advantage in the sexual arena. Don't even try to tell me otherwise.
not all women are the same.

he has an advantage with the women who prefer big.

he has a serious disadvantage with the women who prefer small to average.
 

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not all women are the same.

he has an advantage with the women who prefer big.

he has a serious disadvantage with the women who prefer small to average.

Indeed. It seems like most women prefer small ( under 6) and say that anything bigger hurts. The few who do like bigger seem to be few and far between, but they are awesome to me.
 

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Vaginal stimulation takes place within the first two inches of the vagina.

That's like saying only the head and foreskin area of the penis are stimulated. Yes, that's the most sensitive area along with the clitoris, but I've known many women that like deep penetration and are turned on by that "full" feeling. I've even known some girls who get turned on by their cervix being hit (usually not too hard though, just enough to let them know you're filling them to capacity :biggrin1:)

Having a large penis is considered "manly" because it's a defining sexual characteristic. Having big testicles, muscles or a mighty beard is also considered manly by mainstream society as manly because they are typical male characteristics of virility. That's just the way it is.

There's good news though: I've known women that don't like large penises because they do tear them up. Either they're thick and cause wear and tear more quickly, or they're long and they bruise the cervix. I've actually had this problem with my wife. Sometimes we'll get really into it, and I'll slip in a little too deep and "wham!". It's a real mood killer, because to her it feels like getting kicked in the nuts. For my wife, a smaller penis would probably be a little preferable, but she also says she loves that I go deeper than anyone else and sort of "claim" that part of her. I've also known women who just can't get enough of a big dick and worship it solely for being big (which is sexy as hell.)

It sounds like you have a bone (no pun intended) to pick with society for considering big penises to be better or more manly in general. Remember though that having a small penis is just one of many factors about someone, and is very rarely a deal breaker by itself. The truth is though that the majority of folks look upon a larger penis as favorable, and that's because all other things being equal, they usually feel better and there's a sense of power about it that arouses lots of people.

I may be hung, but I'm physically less attractive than probably over half of society. Still, I don't sweat it or blame society. I just play the hand I'm dealt and enjoy life. If a girl ridicules you for being small, fire back with something about cellulite on the back of her legs. I guarantee that torpedo will sink her right quick. :D

Hope I could be of some assistance.
 
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Brad you obviously have issues with your small dick. Human behaviour is human behaviour. What people call manly is manly. And if people associate large penises with manlyness then, large penis is a factor in what makes men manly, Like I said it doesn't make men any better. And high testosterone is associated with larger penis, What stimulates growth in teenage years, Leedig cells which are responsible for testosterone production! You obviously created this thread in search of a specific reply. Chill the F*&K out and accept your small penis.
BTW The whole small penis guy's that will beat me up (probably behind the bus shelter) just prove the small penis insecurity, (a direct result of the association which people make with small penis and lack of manlyness)

Penis size is largely determined by genetics, not how much testosterone you produce. If that was the case every hairy teenager with exaggerated secondary sexual characteristics would have a huge cock which just isn't the case.

For me a trans with a donkey dick is not manly at all. You are confusing masculinity with having a large cock. I wouldn't call you masculine just because you have a big dick. Nor do I understand why you should feel superior to someone who was born with small dick. It's almost like gloating you weren't born Jewish.

Personally, I think many have been led to believe that large cocks are in fact superior, when in reality I think the majority who have partners with average to small cocks have been completely sexually satisfied and fulfilled by their mates and they find frankly, big dicks aren't superior at all.

I have been completely sexually satisfied by large, average and smaller dick guys. But the satisfaction hasn't been solely a function of a man's cock size.

It's a shame that guys like Brad have to feel bad at the expense of guys like you. When in fact there is absolutely nothing wrong with him.
 
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So many have chimed in on exactly what I want to say, but I do want to point this out:

By the way, I have at its hardest a 5x4.25" cut cock. It's what I have. I can't change it. I had no choice in the matter.

You can never be so very wrong about this. If you have such an issue about it, either accept it (which you seem to have not) or do something about it. PE works, I'm living proof of it (unfortunately I have no actual proof).
 

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Vaginal stimulation takes place in the entire vagina. All of it. It all is sensitive. Near the entry it is sensitive to friction, and deeper in, it is sensitive to pleasure. For me, and for many other women who have found their way here, more intense orgasms actually are experienced from deep penetration. Having said that, I personally find that big dicks are big, average ones are average, and they feel different from, not better or worse than each other.

I agree with everything else you wrote in this response. However, I disagree with some of your original post. I don't think the majority of the men posting here have large cocks. I don't think the majority of the ones who do post here because of insecurity. I think YOU post here because of insecurity, but that's another topic. Also, as another poster pointed out, you seem to be unfamiliar with the fact that a very generous portion of smaller-and-average-hung men who post here WANT to be humiliated by ridicule and insults. Some of them ask for it very straightforwardly, and others try to fool people into doing it subtly. That is a part of the culture of this board.

You also mention on of my peeves. The men who talk about pounding away, stretching, ruining, destroying, wrecking a woman. They sound so sleezy and selfish to me too!

Isn't it fair to say only the first few inches of your entrance is your vagina. There are other parts past the vagina that can feel good when stimulated.
 

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Isn't it fair to say only the first few inches of your entrance is your vagina. There are other parts past the vagina that can feel good when stimulated.
no, it's not fair to say.
it's incorrect.
it's as daft as saying that your leg is only a leg up to the knee :rolleyes:

the vagina is the tube, from start to cervix.
the whole length of the tube.
the vulva is the external area.
 

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I like big and I haven't had anyone super big but I have had a "small" man to know I don't like it. And yeah we had foreplay, he ate me out, blah, blah, blah but at the end of all that I want to be fucked right. Honestly, I am so annoyed, do I have high expectations or do most men suck in bed? And not for nothing, I work my ass in bed, so I know it's not me. God I just want a man to rock my world in bed --just ROCK IT.
 

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not all women are the same.

he has an advantage with the women who prefer big.

he has a serious disadvantage with the women who prefer small to average.

I second this.

I've experienced enough sizes to know that I personally prefer average, even though I've experienced pleasure with all types. Past a certain point a large penis becomes a hindrance for me. I don't want to have to worry about the pain that could be caused by too-deep thrusts, or tearing. I want to let go and be submersed in the moment without having to think about our dimensional differences.
 

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I like big and I haven't had anyone super big but I have had a "small" man to know I don't like it. And yeah we had foreplay, he ate me out, blah, blah, blah but at the end of all that I want to be fucked right. Honestly, I am so annoyed, do I have high expectations or do most men suck in bed? And not for nothing, I work my ass in bed, so I know it's not me. God I just want a man to rock my world in bed --just ROCK IT.

Unfortunately, some people never learn how to be great lovers. Do you communicate what you like and don't like? I found in my experience that it helps to take the lead sometimes.
 

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no, it's not fair to say.
it's incorrect.
it's as daft as saying that your leg is only a leg up to the knee :rolleyes:

the vagina is the tube, from start to cervix.
the whole length of the tube.
the vulva is the external area.

And once you get past the tube, there is a combination of space and other organs. Unless, of course, you are saying your vagina is an infinitely deep orifice - like a rainbow that never really leads to a pot of gold. Using your analogy, the cul de sac is to the vagina as the hip is to the leg. Connected, but not the same thing. I know you have one and I don't, but I don't think your answer is necessarily that accurate.
 

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And once you get past the tube, there is a combination of space and other organs. Unless, of course, you are saying your vagina is an infinitely deep orifice - like a rainbow that never really leads to a pot of gold. Using your analogy, the cul de sac is to the vagina as the hip is to the leg. Connected, but not the same thing. I know you have one and I don't, but I don't think your answer is necessarily that accurate.
anything the dick actually gets into is vagina. the cul-de-sac is vagina. it's a tube. the whole tube is vagina. the dick stays within the tube. it can't go wandering off into the space beyond. you can't just decide that only a couple of inches of it count as a vagina. the whole damn tube is vagina. the whole of it, aside from the cervix, is a dead end street. the cervix is closed. exit only. you don't get past the tube! your dick doesn't get to the space and organs beyond, so the space and organs beyond are entirely irrelevant to the question of vaginal sensation.

so your 'only the first few inches' is not 'fair to say'.

please read a biology book or two before you start trying to redefine my private parts.
 

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There seems to be so much emphasis these days placed on hugeness and girth. In the bi/gay community, I think a lot of guys seem to looking for guys who are hung. Yet, I must be odd because a very large cock (which I consider to be anything beyond 7 or 8 inches) is difficult for me to enjoy other than for the novelty aspect. Whereas a smaller one, like say 5 or 6 inches, is more fun to me because it's workable for almost any activity.

This is ironic because I'm on the larger side myself, yet I prefer guys with average or smaller cocks. All of the guys I've been with (except one) have been noticeably smaller than mine. I think all of them said something about the comparison and wishing they were as big as mine.

To me a smaller cock has never been a reason to be with them again or not. It's the guy, not the cock. Conversely, the largest guy I have been with was hung like an absolute mule; probably as thick as a 16 ounce water bottle and slightly longer than mine. Sure it was fun to look at initially and play around with, but I couldn't fully enjoy it regardless where we tried to put it. So he'd probably be the last guy I'd be with again if I could hook up with all my old flings.

Being the victim....err....I mean, being a guy whose wife uses a strap on...my wife's toy is a rather large strap on. It hurts like hell, but somehow find a way to manage. But it's my fault completely. When we were buying it, I thought bigger was better so we got the full size Feeldoe. It's freaking big to me. But because she has orgasms while using I'm willing to keep using it. I admit that it's kind of a turn on to know that she's getting off at the sacrifice of my poor ass. But we are looking for a similar model that's thinner and shorter so at least I can halfway enjoy it.

So I'm with dolfette on the size issue. It completely depends on what's perfect for the individual.
 
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I agree about size not mattering. However, I don't agree with the comment
"Vaginal stimulation takes place within the first two inches of the vagina", I do have a lot of stimulation in that area, however, I can have entirly different orgasm when my husband is deep inside of me. I have been with several men and my husband is the biggest that I have ever been with, and he is the first to give me orgasm while inside me. Each woman is different in size too, so there are women that a smaller or avereage dick size is perfect.


ps.. poltrygeist...I love your avatar pic....it is awesome...I love knowing that I took that picture and also helped to get you that hard!!!! Thanks for taking mine ;-)
 

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anything the dick actually gets into is vagina. the cul-de-sac is vagina. it's a tube. the whole tube is vagina. the dick stays within the tube. it can't go wandering off into the space beyond. you can't just decide that only a couple of inches of it count as a vagina. the whole damn tube is vagina. the whole of it, aside from the cervix, is a dead end street. the cervix is closed. exit only. you don't get past the tube! your dick doesn't get to the space and organs beyond, so the space and organs beyond are entirely irrelevant to the question of vaginal sensation.

so your 'only the first few inches' is not 'fair to say'.

please read a biology book or two before you start trying to redefine my private parts.

You have a pretty simplistic view of what is going on between your legs. But, having seen quite a few of your posts, that's pretty much your MO. Bossy, but in a naive kind of way. I guess some guys like that. Go back to your 8th grade health notes. I'm sure there's something in there you missed. As badly as you have misinterpreted my point, that's pretty much a certainty. In the mean time, you can call the whole thing your vagina and we will know what you are talking about.