Big dick magnet

[deleted1058283]

So, it seems that I have been fortunate enough to pretty much only ever come across/hook up with guys that are hung above average.
The first time I ever had sex with a man I feel like I got spoiled, he was about 10-10.5" and really thick. We had sex a few times and he showed me how to take care and give pleasure to a well endowed guy.
Now look, I LOVE a big cock but I don't necessarily seek it out but it seems like every guy that I have been with has been either above average or very above average. I have actually only ever been with 2 guys that fell into the average category. Also, I have been lucky enough that most of the men I have been with have been at least 8" and thick.

So, my question is has anybody else been in the same boat? Do you think that I subconsciously seek out big dick or has it been coincidence? I have traveled all over and it always is the same, if I randomly meet someone to hook up with, when I pull their pants down a big damn fat cock pops out and I am surprised each time (yet thrilled)!

Is it luck of the draw or is it somehow premeditated?

 

[rayray]

So, it seems that I have been fortunate enough to pretty much only ever come across/hook up with guys that are hung above average.
The first time I ever had sex with a man I feel like I got spoiled, he was about 10-10.5" and really thick. We had sex a few times and he showed me how to take care and give pleasure to a well endowed guy.
Now look, I LOVE a big cock but I don't necessarily seek it out but it seems like every guy that I have been with has been either above average or very above average. I have actually only ever been with 2 guys that fell into the average category. Also, I have been lucky enough that most of the men I have been with have been at least 8" and thick.

So, my question is has anybody else been in the same boat? Do you think that I subconsciously seek out big dick or has it been coincidence? I have traveled all over and it always is the same, if I randomly meet someone to hook up with, when I pull their pants down a big damn fat cock pops out and I am surprised each time (yet thrilled)!

Is it luck of the draw or is it somehow premeditated?

I was spoiled too my first time . I think circumstances around your pick-ups should be considered
It always seemed that way with me but I usually knew through reputation what I was in for .

 

[deleted1058283]

I was spoiled too my first time . I think circumstances around your pick-ups should be considered
It always seemed that way with me but I usually knew through reputation what I was in for .

.I mean of course, I have sometimes known that he was hung beforehand but often times I had no idea. Of course we all hope to be making out with someone and then slide our hand between his legs to discover a large penis but it literally happens to me all of the time.

 

[headhunted_]

I prefer big or xl. & have had some, but more average than big or XL. If you figure out your why or how you do it? Please pass it my way!! Lol

 

[902369]

I mean if you say online or on apps that you like hung...what do you think will happen?

 

[hotbtminla]

Very interesting question. I'm in a somewhat similar boat, albeit I've got a lower batting average that you when it comes to above-average bats.

Statistically speaking it can't be luck, which means there's something else affecting it. I don't know that I'd say premeditated per se, because that involves conscious thought, and you're as surprised as I am when we open a package and find a big present inside.

It's likely that you're putting off an unconscious vibe, which is probably ingrained in everything from how confidently you scan a room to how you flirt and with who (meaning you're also picking up on his vibes). It's probably more ephemeral than "I love big cock," but that's part of the mix.

To the point above mine - I am not shy about loving cock in general, big cock in particular, and that I am an enthusiastically easy lay who's down to take it without strings.

When I'm online cruising for dick that info is all out in the open. When I randomly meet guys in a bar or party or whatever that info isn't out there, but like my theory with OP, I think it somewhat *is* out there, just something I'm subtextually projecting. Which attracts guys to me because they pick up on the fact that I'm not only (almost certainly) DTF, that getting them off is what will get me off, and that I know how to take and please a big cock.

Either that, or I'm overthinking it and all I'm projecting is that I like rye whiskey and dress well.

 

[bravesoldier]

I dig large too but if you haven't yet, you will be in for a huge (no pun intended) surprise when you come across the perfect six inch thick boner. Sucking perfection and no struggles. Just pure cock enjoyment and ecstasy.

At these times you see it really is about quality of sex and not size, even though size is hot.

 

[TimeOut101]

Hey if you’re in North Carolina did you ever happen to meet a guy that went by hothorse or Varsity01 on gay.com? I think he lived in Raleigh and to this day had the biggest dick I ever had the pleasure of hooking up with

 

[LilJock]

Is it luck of the draw or is it somehow premeditated?

Maybe a bit of both. And maybe you just have a tendency to over-estimate the size of guys' cocks. You said that the first guy you ever had sex with was 10-10.5". Cocks that size are an extreme rarity if not non-existent. They seem to only exist on the web. Something like unicorns in mythology. You also said that you "have been lucky enough that most of the men [you] have been with have been at least 8" and thick." Only a small percentage of guys have cocks that size.

But I get your point. Perhaps you have "size-dar" or send out signals that attract well-hung dudes. I'm hung like a chipmunk. This once led to a conversation with a gay friend of mine. He said he had a thing for guys with small dicks* but for some reason hardly ever hooked up with anything but average- or well-hung joes, even though he was on the lookout for the more petite variety. His friends seemed to hook up with them all the time, but he never did.

Maybe just the luck of the draw. Like a terrible night at the casino where the cards never seem to run your way.



* I've run into a fair number of guys like that in the internet . Men who are attracted to good-looking, fit guys with small cocks. Unfortunately I'm straight, so it does me no good. Why aren't there women with a fetish for small-hung dudes?