Big Dick Nice Guy (usually an oxymoron)

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Dorian_Gray, Sep 13, 2007.

  1. Dorian_Gray

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    Today I met quite possibly the nicest, most humble, and most modest good looking big dicked guy EVER! So this makes me think of a good topic for a new thread... why is it so hard to find someone like that? (In either sex really) ... Got any theorys?:confused:
     
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    We are around you just have to look for us.
     
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    I'm nice. Does that mean that i have a tiny dick?
     
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    I've dated guys who are nice and well endowed. I've dated some jerks who were well endowed too. And there's a mix in the not so well endowed department. I was a jerk magnet for a while in my mid twenties. I'm over it. Now I attract guys who have major intimacy issues.

    The theory I have is that you attract guys who mirror what you need to work on most. So maybe I was a jerk in my mid-twenties. And these days I have to work on my own intimacy issues.

    By the way, you have a big cock. And you seem to be nice... Just sayin'...:wink:
     
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    I think jerks and nice guys come in all sizes.
     
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    Aint that the truth!

    We could ask if womens breast size affects their personality.
     
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    How did this scene go down?
     
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    Don't forget that some people are complete jerks in some situations and total softies in others. :p
     
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    I don't think dick size has anything to do with whether a person is nice or not. Jerks come in all sizes!
     
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    I've encountered well endowed women and once or twice that seem to reflect the worldview on their tit size.

    BORING!

    It takes all kinds. Mostly my wife (size 44) said i was different because I didn't talk to her breasts when I first met her. I did that after the clothes were off....
     
  11. Dorian_Gray

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    thanks..

    it was complicated.

    No, no, no... i just said why are they so darn hard to find...

    I think that I have what simcha was talking about... I need to work on that.
     
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    I had no idea we met today! but thanks for that.
    Seriously i agree with other posters some big dicked guys are c**ts because the world has taught them that they are special. same with girls with big tits. I dont blame them. I guess its sites like this one(which i love) which teach well endowed guys that they are indeed special and admired. So in fact are we to blame?
    I have also met guys with tiny dicks that are utter twats aswell. i find its mostly the good looking lads regardless of dick size that come accross as assholes, again this is because society teaches us" Beauty good, ugly bad"
     
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    my point exactly!!
     
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    I tend to be very modest and shy, not just about my penis size, but about showing my body too. When I go swimming, it takes me between 10 and 30 minutes to get the confidence to take off my shirt. I guess I worry about being boastful or being upstaged by someone better looking than me. lol, I think I'm too nice for my own good.

    I'm a lot more confident online mainly because the topic is universally known, and I most likely don't know anyone here personally.
     
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    Exactly. With the anonomity of the internet, it's much easier to let traits, that you don't have normally, come out.
     
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    Maybe guys with big dicks are hard to find? I don't know since I am not after guys. Just my 2 cents. Now don't beat me up for it :biggrin1:
     
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    I'm a big dicked nice guy
    been told the nicest guy in the world actually
    not too good looking tho to be honest, heard 7 out of 10
    which I'd say is cute but nothing great
    higher then I'd rate myself really
     
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    It would be great to find a nice guy close to me.
    There is a dirth of sweeties here and for some reason I just don't put moves on men.
     
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    I've known at least two. (Mainly because I don't usually know what size the guys I know are! :biggrin1: )

    1. I only know his size (generality, not specific measurement or anything) from hearsay. This is the guy I wish I'd met before he met his wife. He and I had a lot of other things in common (interests, views, etc.) as well.

    2. The guy I've been involved in an open relationship with for 14 years.
     
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    I Think there are many nice big dicked guys, but you notice only the jerks cuz they want all the attention ;) so you have to look more to see the nice guys ;)
     
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