Big Dick Syndrome

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by DonkeyHungLad, Aug 31, 2009.

  1. DonkeyHungLad

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    So, this is the deal. I've got a big dick. Ever since I was in school, I've always got a hard time over it. When I go swimming with my friends and I'm getting changed, they always start shouting things about the size of my dick. It's really embarrasing cuz people turn round and look.They try to hide their shock but it still shows on their face and this makes me feel weird. I've started getting changed in cubicles and I don't use urinals anymore. I'm really self concious. Do you think that people are jealous or they're actually disgusted?

    BTW, I know my username seems a bit cocky (excuse the pun) but it was set up by a friend of mine as a joke, so I decided to use it for advice.

    FYI, I'm 6 inches flaccid and 9 inches erect.
     
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    Thanks dude. I don't think I'll risk goin on some sort of perverts list though! lol
     
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    Oh, how I wish I could post a thread like this....
     
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    Welcome. I'm sorry about your chronic condition.
     
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    There's nothing disguting about a 6-inch flaccid penis. Quite the opposite. If you feel embarrassed by people looking at it, change under a towel, or just say 'yeah, so you like it?' or something else that's witty.
     
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    You become more of a penis and less of a man when your friends do this. Find new friends.
     
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    No, my firends are legends in every other situation and context. This is the only situation when I feel unconfortable around them. We talk about everything. I love them to bits but some times it's just ike, change the record, ya know?
     
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    Well, either they listen to you and stop the rude commentary or you realize that they are a bit immature. It's up to you who you hang with.
     
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    Don't be embarrassed about having a big dick, better too big than too small...trust me. I remember back during freshman year in high school, taking our first P.E. showers together, one classmate got naked and revealed the longest flaccid dick I had ever seen in my life and its still to this day. My friend standing next to me took a look and shouted out "holy shit, look at that!" Nobody even laughed, we were to busy staring at that work of art!
     
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    I presume you're young. Kids will pick on anyone who's different for any reason. They're teasing the small-hung guys too. And the fat ones, the spotty ones, etc., etc.

    It'll ease up as you get older. But in your case their reaction is defensive. They're not disgusted; they're jealous, envious and fascinated. They percieve you as superior, and their joshing is meant to bring you back to earth and reasure eachother.

    Pretty soon you'll find it's an asset. Then your challenge will be to prove yourself as a person, rather than just a big cock.

    Edit: From your second and third posts, I'd say you'll do just fine. Welcome to the group!
     
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    Chill brah. Guys used to make horse whining noises when I walked in the locker room. Its all in good fun. Better to be made fun of for a big dick than the opposite.
     
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    I agree.
     
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    There IS one cure that I know of... Get married... to a chick called Lorena (Bobbit)... She'll cure you fast of the affliction... :eek:

    That, or people going in the shrek's voice Don...KEEY!!!
     
  14. DonkeyHungLad

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    I don't really get called Donkey in Shrek's voice, but that's kinda funny.
    Mostly, I get called jumbo knob, donkey dick, schlong.com and people often enquire how it is to have 3 legs, whether I have to eat for two and if I ever sit on my cock. The most random one ever was when I was in the pool, I had just had a cold shower and I was getting changed. I remarked to the only other person in the changing room, "Shit, isn't it cold in here?" He looked at my dick and replied, "You coulda fooled me". I went maroon and then got changed behind my towel. That's when I started getting changed in lockers.
     
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    I totally agree.

    Most men feel envious when they see a man with a big dick.

    In fact a big dick is one of the most desirable things for most men. Maybe because unlike other things they desire (cars, sex, lovers, etc...) it can't be simply bougth.

    Big penis = sexual potency (it's not true but that's how it is written in every man's mind, maybe due to the influence of porn and similar things).

    If you feel envy of a man who drives a big car you can buy a even bigger one than he has.

    But if you see a man with a bigger dick than yours...... well.

    It's just ridiculous but from my personal experience most people think that if you have a big dick you are a better fucker than those with average or small ones (then again porn has something to do with this perception).
     
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    I don't know; it's immature all around if you ask me. "I am more than a penis!" /liberation books.
     
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    Wouldn't it piss you off to have a "larger" friend? To the point that you'd make fun of him to hide your own feelings of inadequacy? :)
     
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    Hey--I went throught the exact same thing in school. Before puberty I was teased for being too small. After puberty, I was given the name Donkey Kong because of my new size. I also hated changing in gym and changed in bathroom stalls. I'm better about it today, but it's taken a lot of time. I really think kids especially zero in on anyone who's different. Doesn't matter what it is, if you're different, you become the target.

    As to whether people are jealous/disgusted, that's difficult to say. I will say that I don't avoid public urinals any more, because if I have to go, I'm using one. If someone sees me--and they sometimes do--and they look, I try to ignore them. Sometimes it's not possible, because the person may try to talk to me while trying to relieve myself. I usually ask them if they'd like someone staring at them while they're attempting to go and that usually works. Other people are just rude and I hate to admit it, but there are times I feel like turning and hitting them with my stream. However I usually I finish and tell them I'm not a freak show--get over it or I'll bloody your nose. At that point, they get the hint.

    Some people are just weirded out and I can't help that or them. I'm not going to apologize for what I have. I just want to be treated like everyone else does. For the most part I find if you level with them, make them understand you don't appreciate their unwanted attention, they understand and take the hint. Hope that helps!

    BigSki
     
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    Count your blessings. There are a lot worse problems to be had.
     
  20. DonkeyHungLad

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    Thanks BigSki
     
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