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  1. jamesblonde

    jamesblonde New Member

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    I'm new, and very curious about your opinions.

    Everyone is talking about it, it's big. It's huge. Some people even cry over this stuff. All over a simple bodily entity, of which we have no more control over sizes than that of our own thumbs.

    Why is our culture obsessed with penis size? Many different scientific studies prove there is no real correlation between race and penis size, yet those are some of the most common and hurtful stereotypes in our culture.

    I'm extremely interested in your opinions. From men with large, average, and small penises. Also from women, though I suspect if they're registered on this website they are biased.
     
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    I ask myself that same question over and over. I honestly care about the size of my penis, but I really don't know why. Porn and sexuality on tv certainly plays a large role. I also believe the fact that "sexual monogamy" is pretty much non-existant in today's society adds to it. So many of us, male and female have had so many parters that we are too "educated" on nature's variety in terms of penis size. For example, if everyone only had one sexual partner that would technically be our best experience, not to say being with a bigger or smaller person is better or worse. I have had my share of partners, but I do not think it has made for a better life. I am in a relationship with the woman I will marry and I honestly wish she was the only woman with whom I had sex. She has only had two partners before me, so there is not much comparing to be done, but if she had been with 40 or so, I would be more concerned about her opinion of my size. I have no religious motivation for this opinion, but I do believe that nature only intended for us to be with our life partner. Don't beat me up too much for feeling this way.
     
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    Why we spend so much time on our dicks? simple...We have lots and lots of spare time. DonĀ“t think for a minute some 3rd world boy/girl working 12+ hours a day, every day, does a lot of thinking in that direction.
    Its a luxury of not having ti think about how to get your next meal
     
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    hmm. so youre quite sure that 3rd world guy isnt spending all day while hes doing that shit job thinking about whats in his pocket and what he'd like to do with it right now?
     
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    Honestly I don't care. Maybe because I'm big-ish. But people always seem to apologize to me with "I'm not as big as you are but.." Of course it's ok. It's your penis, I tell them. And really if I'm going to suck (which I don't often and don't really care to) I'd rather it be manageable. I know I'm way in the minority here. The point for me is to get naked and have fun.
     
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    I think its all a visual thing for me. The penis is a sexual appendage so the bigger the penis = more to look at, more to see, more to think about, more of a turn on.
    The bigger it is, the 'hotter' it is visually.
    I think "size matters" in that sense and therefore most guys feel that bigger is better.
    In reality, I doubt I could handle half of the dicks I see on here. haha
     
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    I have been with only one woman in my life and I'm her only partner. We found each other in HS and never found the need for other serious partners. Both of us (I'll speak for the two of us) are extraordinarily happy with our sexual compatibility and our mutual sex lives. We are the exception...actually a huge exception since we've been together for 45 years and married for 40. My wife is gone right now and I'm already fantasizing about her return and what we'll be doing (she dominates my fantasies...I have no need to think much about others...I do, but it's the exception - she's my main fantasy partner). As a matter of fact, when I watch porn without her (like now when she's away), I do it imagining what her reaction would be to what I'm watching. If I think she'd like a particular scene, I focus on it and come saying her name!! We're both so lucky because, like swans, we appear to have mated for life. BTW, whatever your religious persuasion, there is a God to thank for that cock of yours. It's quite something (I'm not the least bit gay, but I can appreciate a big, healthy cock and imagine what my wife would think about it). May your developing relationship bring you as much happiness and sexual delight as our last 45 years have brought us.
     
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