Hi there, from a woman's point of view (well mine) any guy going at it like there's no tomorrow is a turn off and even the small guys can pop out and stick it where it's going to hurt! I have had several well endowed guys, some where even porn stars, shagging as their only source of income. Now I can tell you this, there is no such thing as a guy been too big! So don't think you can hurt us, rip or tear us.
Well the truth is you can, but that is normally called rape! All we want is a guy or guys to be able to make love, that does not mean wanking till your hard, shoving the thing in and banging away until your tired then pulling out and spending half an hour wanking till you cum! (You know who you are)
We want to feel tenderness, closeness, we want guys to be able to perform oral sex, (again that does not mean shoving stubby fingers inside, or seeing how many fingers will fit)! Every woman likes to be stretched and filled, every woman likes to experience an orgasm, so guys when we do, then you can show your passion, and cum handsfreeeeeeeee!
freya