Big dicks and straightness?

[Loop_hole]

Hey just wondering but if you enjoy looking at big dicks but still love women, would that make you bi or just a very envious person?

 

[LuxInTenebris]

A simple answer, to my mind...if you happen to be wanking off to pictures of big cocks, or have the desire to do so, then that seems pretty gay to me. That said, who cares?
If, on the other hand, you're just here to compare and get off on having the sight of your cock enjoyed by other people, then you're not gay; just male.

 

[starling888]

I think looking at dicks, especially big ones, can be an intense experience for anyone, and it's hard to sort out whatever feelings accompany the experience might mean.

A more insightful question for diagnosing someone's orientation would be, to my mind, how they feel about kissing people of either gender. If a guy gets excited looking at a big cock, but thinks the idea of kissing another man is disgusting, how gay can he be?

 

[quercusone]

I like looking at Big dicks. But I don't want to touch/suck/ fuck them. It's like looking at a great athlete, actor, singer......I'm mesmerized by the young Mick Jagger, but I don't wanna fuck him.

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

I think looking at dicks, especially big ones, can be an intense experience for anyone, and it's hard to sort out whatever feelings accompany the experience might mean.

A more insightful question for diagnosing someone's orientation would be, to my mind, how they feel about kissing people of either gender. If a guy gets excited looking at a big cock, but thinks the idea of kissing another man is disgusting, how gay can he be?

You can't boil sexuality down to a shopping list of particular sex acts. Some gay guys are disgusted by bum sex, some guys just don't like kissing much (gay or straight) some guys don't enjoy head whatever the gender of the person giving it to them.

Some people enjoy specific sex acts regardless of the gender of the person they're doing it with. Some people enjoy making out regardless of the gender of the person they're making out with.

Etc etc etc.


To answer the OP, no wanking to pictures of big dicks does not mean the person doing the wanking is necessarily bisexual or homosexual. They might be, but there's more to deciding that kinda thing than merely wanking to images of big dicks. And ultimately it's up to each individual to decide for themselves what they think about their own sexuality.

I enjoy straight porn that doesn't mean I'm bisexual.

 

[deleted349934]

A simple answer, to my mind...if you happen to be wanking off to pictures of big cocks, or have the desire to do so, then that seems pretty gay to me. That said, who cares?
If, on the other hand, you're just here to compare and get off on having the sight of your cock enjoyed by other people, then you're not gay; just male.

Agreed.

 

[326807]

I enjoy seeing women get deep dicked prolly because of my size....When I whatch a porno with small dicked men i always wonder weather the woman really are being satisfied or faking it....I dont think that makes me gay...I may be a closet exhibitionist because I enjoy the reactions from women when they find out my size and tend to enjoy said penis..lol

 

[yoursgetsmine]

It's so much better to be turned on by "whatever" turns you on...dick, cum, pussy, tits, asses, and not limit yourself to any one gender .....but having said that, sometimes it's probably better to share that with who would understand that position, and not proclaim it to the world at large. It's a shame, but it could come back and bite you in the ass, and NOT in a good way.

 

[yoursgetsmine]

Oh and if you're bi....it's cool to watch a hot babe fuck a big dick because it's a DOUBLE turn-on!!

 

[starling888]

hilaire is correct in pointing out my oversimplification.

The point I was trying clumsily to make is that being excited by big dicks and being attracted to men in general (which I take as a prerequisite to being considered bi or gay) are not the same thing.

 

[Loop_hole]

thanks

 

[D_Delbert Dingdong]

Imagine a big fat 10" cock plunging into your asshole, pumping and his balls slapping against your ass or your cock as well. Then you pull it out and suck it off, letting a load blast in your mouth and on your face. Are you turned on?

Yes, you might be bi/gay

No, you're cool. If you look at other cocks and imagine yours as big as that, then i think you are normal.

 

[87chris1987]

Here's your answer

 

[willow78]

Depends - do you listen to Lady Gaga while doing it? :tongue:

But seriously, you like what you like and only you can decide which label you give yourself - that's if you decide to give yourself a label at all.

I'm going to go off on a rant here.....kinda off-topic but that's normal for my posts. If it sounds familiar it's because I posted a similar rant on another thread. Please note, this rant is NOT directed at the original poster (or anyone else here) just a rant.....I get pissed off with the double-standard that anyone who doesn't fit the 'straight' label has to 'announce' who or what they are. Straight people only have to announce their sexuality when it's questioned, but gays, bis etc. are expected to 'explain' themselves. We get accused of being 'liars' just because we don't hold a fucking press conference about it. What bugs me the most about the double standard is that a lot of gays buy into it and get really nasty about people (mainly public figures) just because they aren't 'out' - there are many people who are just living their lives but because they've never labelled themselves or made a big announcement they're accused of being 'liars' and made to feel guilty and dishonest. I think if people were allowed to just 'be', there'd be a lot less hang-up about sex and sexuality.

I'm sure that someone else could have expressed that a whole lot better and clearer, but I just felt like having a whinge.

 

[borntobeking]

I think if people were allowed to just 'be', there'd be a lot less hang-up about sex and sexuality.

<STANDING OVATION> Very well put. I couldn't agree more.:biggrin1:

 

[ahornyman30]

i don't understand why people feel the need to label everything if it turns u on no matter what it is enjoy it if looking at big cock gets you off then enjoy it straight gay bi its all relative what it comes down to is were all human with needs and desires and we all do what ever it takes to fulfill them so enjoy what ever it is that get u off

 

[pcghabsy]

That's pretty much it - there's no use putting labels. I enjoy looking at attractive cocks, but I would never want to touch them, let alone anything else. That's about it, really.