Big Dicks n Anal Sex

[ThaTruth]

Does anyone besides me have a problem doing anal sex. Me and some of my girls in the past have tried it but my dicks is too large to go in even with lube its extremely painful to them and I can barely get my head in. Then after a while ill lose my hard on for trying so long. I've tried lube anal fingering etc.. nothing is helping me I'm thinking of stop trying. But having sex with a big dick with smalls cunts aren't easy either. Anyone have tips or havoing this same issue?

 

[fnaslut]

More foreplay...eating her out...lots of lube...and, more than anything...she needs to relax! I have taken some pretty big cocks...its all about foreplay and relaxing!

 

[Mem]

Does anyone besides me have a problem doing anal sex. Me and some of my girls in the past have tried it but my dicks is too large to go in even with lube its extremely painful to them and I can barely get my head in. Then after a while ill lose my hard on for trying so long. I've tried lube anal fingering etc.. nothing is helping me I'm thinking of stop trying. But having sex with a big dick with smalls cunts aren't easy either. Anyone have tips or havoing this same issue?

Have her stretch out her ass first. Enemas help and fingers and then small dildos or butt plugs, or find a slutty girl or a guy who can take a dick like a man.:biggrin1:

 

[ThaTruth]

Ha. I'm not a fan on putting my hand on a dildo or a butt plug it just grosses me out. But those are gr8 suggestions. I sure wish girls had asses like pornstars it'll make it a helluva lot easier.

 

[ScorpioSlut]

So you find prolapses attractive?

Ha. I'm not a fan on putting my hand on a dildo or a butt plug it just grosses me out. But those are gr8 suggestions. I sure wish girls had asses like pornstars it'll make it a helluva lot easier.

 

[crescendo69]

Let her sit on it while you lay down. She can control how fast it enters and will feel safer, thus loosening her up more.

 

[ThaTruth]

lol i mean have an ass where its easier for you to stick it in not so much of jamming in hah

 

[MrMXYZPTLK]

Put alot of Lube in her asshole and your dick, take 10 steps back and get a running start.

or just be real patient, and do it the old fashion slow way

or just consider she doesn't and probably won't like anal.

 

[ThaTruth]

ya i can digg that. i probably should put alot more lube that could be the problem.
most of the girls i tried it with have done it. but i guess i need to put more lube in for them..

 

[slurper_la]

or you can do me :tongue:

 

[biz4two]

I've had the same prob. So...unless she requests...I don't even bother with it.

Last last I was with...we were both boozed up pretty good. So...she asks me to go anal on her. I get the head of my cock in her...and she leaps forward...saying Hell NO...I ain't that drunk!!! LOL! Finished fucking her tight pussy instead...


biz

 

[Bbucko]

I just posted a long bit on ass fingering here. Take from it what you will.

I agree with Mem, though. Toys help a lot.

Anal sex isn't something you rush into unless she's very experienced with it.

 

[Lex]

Ha. I'm not a fan on putting my hand on a dildo or a butt plug it just grosses me out. But those are gr8 suggestions. I sure wish girls had asses like pornstars it'll make it a helluva lot easier.

Putting your finger in someone's ass grosses you out and you want to put your penis in there? Am I missing something? Also--there is a ton of prep and foreplay that goes on off camera in porn to make it all look that easy. It never is. Women have to clean out, get relaxed, etc. Men have to be able to sustain an erection while being given direction and having several people stare at you (ED drugs help with this).

I just posted a long bit on ass fingering here. Take from it what you will.

I agree with Mem, though. Toys help a lot.

Anal sex isn't something you rush into unless she's very experienced with it.

What they said. Also, even if someone is experienced with anal sex, it takes time to relax them and open them up. Then, it takes patience and a LOT of lube to achieve full, pleasurable penetration for both parties.

 

[D_Chaumbrelayne_Copprehead]

More foreplay...eating her out...lots of lube...and, more than anything...she needs to relax! I have taken some pretty big cocks...its all about foreplay and relaxing!

Let her sit on it while you lay down. She can control how fast it enters and will feel safer, thus loosening her up more.

i probably should put alot more lube that could be the problem.
most of the girls i tried it with have done it. but i guess i need to put more lube in for them..

I just posted a long bit on ass fingering here. Take from it what you will.

I agree with Mem, though. Toys help a lot.

Anal sex isn't something you rush into unless she's very experienced with it.

All good thoughts. But SOMETIMES ... it just takes time with a regular partner. If you are with a regular partner who likes the idea of taking you up her ass but is physically unable to do it ... do a little more each time. Get lubed up, be caring and gentle, and go a little further each time, and then pull out, clean up and put on a new condom ('cause you shouldn't get what's in her ass into her vagina for health reasons), and go on and have a good time doing something else.

I'll bet that within three or four attempts, she'll learn how to take you and it'll be part of your fun sex times together!

 

[Sassy]

The first time, I almost broke up with my BF - it hurt so badly! With particularly large cocks, it's important for the woman to back up onto it (for me, it's not only the size, but the angle that the man's coming in). Let the woman control the angle and speed (at least until she's used to it).

Make sure your dick is extra lubed (and a condom is always best, especially if you want to continue in her pussy, afterward).

My current BF is too long for me to consider it, however. Fortunately, he's addicted to my puss. ;-)