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Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by Brock Rockington, Oct 25, 2010.

  1. Brock Rockington

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    I recently started seeing someone and we have sex nearly everyday. She is on a form of birth control and clean, so I don't wear a condom, which is a first for me. Another first is that I can actually come inside of her. It's something I could never do before, I think because I am not sensitive enough wit a condom on.
    So, here's my problem: Until recently I would last a REALLY long time, much to my and others dismay, and now sometimes I come fairly quickly-enough time for her to come but completely out of my control. The other thing is that I have been having trouble getting hard for intercourse. I get hard randomly, when I see something I like, but when it comes time to penetrate I need a lot of encouragement. And then I come faster than I want.
    A week or so ago I started using horny goat weed which I think is responsible for my increased sensitvity, but I'm not sure. Any thoughts?
     
  2. Brock Rockington

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    To clarify, recently, it takes me long to get fully hard, and then when I do, I come fairly quickly, whether handjob blowjob or penetration.
     
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    i would stop the horny goat weed, there's really nothing good from it in the long run, you'll only run into complications
     
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    sounds like a lot of anxiety. take a break and slow down.
     
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    Id still wear a condom no matter what.

    She forgets to take that birth control and you'll be her new source of income.
     
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    sound advice!
     
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    I'd wear a condom, but how do you go to that, since you been fucking without. I mean what is she gonna say?? I grew up in times the opposite of yours, the gals were on the pill, no AIDS. seldom used condoms and when I did I split the crap out of them because of my girth and they were one size. I think you are apprehensive about your expected performance.
     
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    I would concur. Stop the herbal supplement. Use a condom, as it is familiar territory and you will be less anxious.

    Also, when I had this exact problem in the past, I started masturbating without lubrication. It decreased my sensitivity and I was able to control my orgasm when having intercourse without a condom.
     
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    You could also try doing kegels. Men that do kegels regularly typically have much better ejaculatory control, and some are even able to have multiple orgasms.
     
  10. Brock Rockington

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    Thanks for the advice. Using a condom is going to be a last resort at this point, I'm afraid I've been spoiled. As far as the birth control, it's one of those arm implants that works for a looong time. I'll definitely stop the horn goat weed for now.
     
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    Just an update: Taking some of the pressure off myself helped ALOT. Also, one more thing changed when I started having issues and I didnt even realize it-I stopped using my beloved cock ring. I love the cockring-orgasm, and being pretty much max-hard. As soon as I reintroduced it, i didn't run into any issues, it was pretty much a return to normal. Deep dicking PAWGs.
     
    #11 Brock Rockington, Oct 28, 2010
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