I'm a big floppy soft guy. I'll tell you two downsides. One, for certain activities, like riding a bike, I absolutely need to wear a jock or sport shorts. Without them, my parts are always needing arrangement and are always getting in the way.
Two, in clothes, my good stuff doesn't really show. Sometimes I totally envy guys with the kind of short dicks that jut forward and show the,selves off. Mine hangs in such a way that my clothes just kinda push it back so it's not visible.
I know, you guys are crying for me out of sympathy . . . but that's the way it is.