I always hear about guys with big girth (or length) worried about hurting women, but I've actually found there's even more of a risk of hurting myself and it has to do with my size. I'm pretty girthy so there's usually a lot of resistance with penetration and that can cause my penis to buckle, bend, get over-squeezed and strangulated by my partner. Has anyone else had this issue? Any advice on how to deal with it other than "more lube?"