envy: I'm saying i'm the biggest around, but as with most people here, I'm big. Problem is, my wife is quite petite, and so she's very tight. We use plenty of lube, but she still gets sore very quickly and I have to be very gentle to start with, and she gradually streches to accomodate, but even this can be painful for her. I want to make her as comfortable as possible as the pain is putting her off big-time! Anyone got any techniques or ideas i can use? shes not big on foreplay, just to make things even harder!