One of my buddies had a blind date the other night, and he had spoken to her on the phone a few times prior to meeting her, so the topic of sex had come up during the conversations. One time I happened to be present when suddenly he said, "I dunno, lemme get a tape measure..." I knew exactly what he was gonna do and was insulted FOR HIM. To his credit, he refused to measure it hard (he's never measure it before --- WISE man, and I warned him never to do it!) so she really had no idea, but they met anyway. If any potential date ever brought that up, especially prior to meeting her in person, I would be short & sweet, saying something like, "8" x 6" but YOU'LL never see it, b!" I would feel like nothing but a piece of meat the entire course of the date -- NO THANKS. Anyway, for the large guys who have had this question asked of them, what was ur honest inner reaction, and how did you respond outwardly to person (male or female) asking?