Big guys, are u turned off if/when a date asks u how big u are?

[denton85]

I've had girls ask. One was a drunken girl at a party, she found out that i was Portuguese and she said, 'i hear Portuguese guys are hung. is that true?'

i stared at her and didn't answer and didn't advance on her at all cause i was in a relationship with a girl.... who was at the party. After she realized i wasn't happy about the question she apologized.

The other girl brought it up on a date. She was 'fishing' i guess. She told me that her friend bet her that i had a small penis before we went out on our second date. We;; she eventually found out my size.

Both time it was kinda distasteful but i didn't really care too much.

 

[B_subgirrl]

i dont personally know a guy that'd ask either of those questions

An FB did ask me how big my boobs were once . . . but only after I'd asked if he'd ever measured his cock, so it was fair enough.

 

[MadCock]

Never been asked my size by anyone before they had seen me nude. But, have had more then a few ask me " just how big is that thing" after seeing me nude.

 

[aajjxx]

Never had a woman ask me that, but I'd definitely had been turned on if it happened. But, that's because I'm a man, and we love to be objectified.

 

[sendera1]

I wouldn't be turned off if a date asked me how big I am. Here's my dirtly little secret. I never bring up the topic of sex. I let her bring it up and they always do. Somehow she almost always brings up the topic of penis size. I'm big so I have no problem with that discussion, lol. I normally, don't tell them an exact size, but I'll hint and joke about it being big. The closest I came to giving a size was one woman who I mentioned it being rather thick. She started trying to guess. She said was it more than 1.5 inches yes, more than 1.75 inches yes, more than 2 inches yes. I was talking on the phone to her and she just sounded surprised. The reason the size discussion doesn't bother me is because the majority of the time if she brings the discussion to sex then I usually end up sleeping with her.

 

[IntoxicatingToxin]

It makes me sad to think that anyone would be so unclassy as to ask this question in the first place... I have NEVER asked a potential date about his cock size, not once. I wait until I see it in person, if that even happens. The only times I've asked a guy his cock size is if I've already seen it and I want the exact numbers, or if it's a male friend and he makes references to his size without actually stating what it is... then I'll ask for clarification purposes. But please guys - if a woman ever asks you this, and you're interested in more than just fucking her brains out, tell her to go to hell!

 

[HorsemanUK]

I think you'd be entitled to be offended, but personally speaking I wouldnt really mind if i was asked.

 

[liamds]

haha never had it asked, but i'm guessing yes, turns me no when it's over yahoo or msn so why not in person.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Some people like to be objectified. Other's don't. This question seems about as polite as asking me my bra size. So many dudes probably cold have found out by looking at the tag when they removed my bra. But they'll never know.

So, how many of you who don't like the question end all contact? Why? How many of you who do not like the question go ahead and fuck her anyway? Why?

 

[Drifterwood]

So, how many of you who don't like the question end all contact? Why? How many of you who do not like the question go ahead and fuck her anyway? Why?

Obviously this depends on how big her tits are.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Obviously this depends on how big her tits are.

:biggrin1:

 

[chefgreg]

In my opinion women who ask are specifically looking for "monster cock". It use to happen in college quite a bit and I would usually say it's not big but I am really good in bed. I only had one complaint in college and this lil slut's vag practically swallowed my hand when I was fingering her.

 

[glowfish]

I find it a turn on actually, but I guess I like size queens.

 

[B_blessed boy]

lol well im still in college, i love it when they ask or jus feel and say "ooooo ur a big one" or some variation of that. I'm not old enough mentally to mind being thought of as a big penis guy.

i always jus let them feel and guess because just hearing them ask makes me wanna show.

 

[RawDog]

I've been asked and have asked (about pussy size). All have been in passing conversations. I don't see the big deal, but then again so many people seem to love me for my mind and I do sometimes want to be objectified.

Yeah, I'm weird and humble too. I'm the humblest person I know.

 

[laser90]

I don' t get offended at all but what I say ....check out my signature!

 

[billdong9999]

Just depends on how it's brought up and when.

I was out on a semi-blind date, several years ago, and after explaining to me some of her sexual exploits that she was having concurrently, while still pursuing a date with me, she came out and asked.

I sort of laughed it off and remained vague... then got the hell out of there. (At dinner she told me she was 'dating' 5 other guys and sleeping with 4 of them. She also disclosed she didn't make them use condoms.)

Clearly, an extreme version of how it could be a turn off.


However a few other people whom I had extensive conversations with and several dates with, it felt less intrusive at that point when it came up.