Have you ever been disappointed (even a wee bit?) when a new partner can handle all of you? or does it turn you on even more? I had a thick, 8", big headed, lover say to me after the third night of fuckfesting "wow, I'm so big and you can handle it and want more!" but sounding a bit disppointed. I guess it is because I am a very petite woman? I tried to explain to him that it was only because he was so skilled with his tool that I was able to take it so easily and for so long (all true) but I don't think it helped. He acted like it was some competition that he just lost.