Big penis but small self confidence

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If you're not in College then start going. There are a ton of women there. Take a few classes you can afford to take. It doesn't have to be a University, it can be a small City College. Take a course that interest you. Sometimes there are campus groups related around what you're studying. Or join a study group. In that way, you are around people who have the same interests as you do. In groups like this, there isn't any pressure. Just don't think about scoring, put that out of your mind. Enjoy the people you're with. You can find common ground. You're making too much out of your situation.

Thanks for the replies.
I do have friends and go to parties but my real problem is actually meeting new people there. Most times i spend the night talking only to people i know.
So i guess u can imagine my trouble of actually making a date. Is online dating worth a try?
 

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Thanks everyone for the advice.
I guess i'll take a look into online dating then. Or maybe wear some tight clothes at occasions and hope that a girl approaches me :biggrin1:
Also pic attached as promised with credit-card sized object for size comparing. Penis is not completely hard tho.
If some woman is interested in camsex feel free to drop a PM. -Sry gays

how come one side of your dick is bigger than the other?
I'm not accusing you of photoshop or anything , i'm just wondering, i've never seen one like that before.
 

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If you're not in College then start going. There are a ton of women there. Take a few classes you can afford to take. It doesn't have to be a University, it can be a small City College. Take a course that interest you. Sometimes there are campus groups related around what you're studying. Or join a study group. In that way, you are around people who have the same interests as you do. In groups like this, there isn't any pressure. Just don't think about scoring, put that out of your mind. Enjoy the people you're with. You can find common ground. You're making too much out of your situation.
I'm actually in college but studying computer science which has like 5% girls :-D
how come one side of your dick is bigger than the other?
I'm not accusing you of photoshop or anything , i'm just wondering, i've never seen one like that before.
I don't know why that is but it has been like that as long as i can remember. Maybe because theres a big blood vessel on the side. I thought about seeing a doctor about it but since it doesn't hurt or so i guess its ok.
 

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I have a similar problem - not in the confidence department but in the overall meeting women department....it sucks because i always felt like if girls knew about my size I would be more successful with landing them
 

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crazy please shut yourself up.. you show no respect for all the men living with their average or below average dick... your dick is extraordinarely large.. especially girth is rare and huge! also you are large everywhere 'cause you are 6'5'' tall... maybe girls of your age are too stupid and you only have to wait to be 25 to get all the best pussies around!! lucky guy I d like to be in your shoes for only a day..I would show you what I'd make!!
 

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crazy please shut yourself up.. you show no respect for all the men living with their average or below average dick... your dick is extraordinarely large.. especially girth is rare and huge! also you are large everywhere 'cause you are 6'5'' tall... maybe girls of your age are too stupid and you only have to wait to be 25 to get all the best pussies around!! lucky guy I d like to be in your shoes for only a day..I would show you what I'd make!!
Sorry i didn't mean to be disrespectful to anyone.
Anyway even the biggest cock in the world doesn't help when noone knows about it ;)
 

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Don't talk about your dick to a female or bulge out. That's not what women wanna or hear or see until its time to get busy. They want confidence.

Women are gonna make you work to get inside their panties.
 

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Because i received some PMs and also requests in this thread i took a few more pics and put them into an album. Note that in most of the pictures my penis isn't really as hard/big as possible.
 

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Crazy as a GEEK I mainly stick to nerdy guys. They treat you better and tend to think with their heads and not always with their dicks. Don't sweat not getting laid it will happen when it dose it with rock your world. Just take it slow you are big enough you might end up hurting a girl. Also eat fresh fruit and veggies so you taste better. :p
 

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u should take some measuring pics as well
I don't have any ruler the size of my penis, thats why i took a pic together with a credit card cover :D If you want to measure it yourself just open that pic, zoom in till the size of the cover matches the size of a real credit card and then measure on your screen.

Just take it slow you are big enough you might end up hurting a girl. Also eat fresh fruit and veggies so you taste better. :p
Thanks i'll keep that in mind, i eat too few vitamins anyway xD
 

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Maybe I can help... Having suffered from negative body image for most of my life, I can certainly understand your trepidation in meeting/talking to someone in that context. It took me a while, but I finally realized a few key things:

1) Nothing risked, is nothing gained. If you don't try, you'll never know whether or not it will work.

2) Tied into #1, you literally have nothing to lose. Once this one clicks in, it'll be like a light switch flicking on, casting a light on a whole new reality. You don't know most of the people (when at a party/bar/night club/etc.), and will in all likelihood never see most of them again. So what difference does it make? You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.

3) This one takes a bit longer to materialize, but it will after you've become accustomed to 1 & 2. Stay calm. If you're nervous, apprehensive, or unsure of yourself it will most definitely shine through. But if you display a calm, reliant, self-assured demeanor then you will shine in an entirely different light. And don't look desperate. Desperation is a stinky cologne, and it can be smelled from a long way off.

4) Above all else, have fun. That's the whole point of what you're trying to accomplish. Whether it's meeting new people, or having drinks with friends, dating, or getting laid HAVE FUN. Enjoy yourself. Otherwise there's no point to any of this.

I hope you take these and other lessons to heart, and that it helps. Don't go literally singing your huge dick around, hoping it'll stick to something. I'm sure that once you get a chance to use it, word will certainly spread. Then they'll come to you. Good luck, my friend.
 

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most of you go on that all women arent into just a good root! some are...even though im gay, ive had a fair share of women just want to fuck--aint nothing wrong with that...

so if a fuck is all you are after, and not marriage, then put it out there bro. You got a great cock (you know that) so act like you have one. Dont be leering creepy and obvious, but be confident and above all, be flirty.

To be flirty, you also need to know when a girl is interested and to what degree.

So, lets re-engineer this thread, to how crazy might recognise a girl is interested.

As a gay guy, Im not that that good, part from my comments earlier where I have had girls point blank ask "fuck me."

But I know from str8 or bi mates that girls are interested when they play with their hair or look at you for more than 3 seconds....

good luck mate, and if you pick up a fuck, report back.
 

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Thanks for the tip with the hair - i'll look for that.

so if a fuck is all you are after, and not marriage, then put it out there bro. You got a great cock (you know that) so act like you have one. Dont be leering creepy and obvious, but be confident and above all, be flirty.
Thats kinda the problem - they don't know i have a big cock and i can't tell them directly :(
Also from what i can remember i have never ever just walked over to an unknown girl and said hi - i always hoped that they would approach me :S
 

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Fortune favors the bold.

these four words interested me when I heard them and completely fucking changed it for the better when actually implemented, especially with women.